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Four Tendencies Continued- Powerful View on Motivation and Being a Rebel or Obliger - 111
Episode 111 • 13th November 2024 • THE GRIT SHOW • Shawna Rodrigues
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This episode of The Grit Show is a must-listen for anyone looking to boost their motivation and personal growth. Host Shawna Rodrigues breaks down the Four Core Expectation Framework (which is commonly called The Four Tendencies), emphasizing how obligers and rebels uniquely respond to tasks and expectations. Learn why obligers, who excel with external motivation, struggle with internal goals, and how you can support them to prevent burnout. Shawna also highlights rebel tendencies and shares her personal experience on effective communication strategies with rebels. From recognizing early signs of "Obliger Rebellion" to aligning tasks with a rebel's personal values, Shawna's insights are both practical and profound. Intrigued by how these principles can make life smoother? Tune in to gain a better understanding and actionable steps for yourself and others.

Shawna Rodrigues left her award-winning career in the public sector in 2019 and after launching The Grit Show, soon learned the abysmal fact that women hosted only 27% of podcasts. This led to the founding of the Authentic Connections Podcast Network intent on raising that number by 10% in five years- 37 by 27. Because really, shouldn’t it be closer to 50%? She is the Director of Impact for the network, which offers full-service support for podcasting from mentoring to production. In September 2023 they are also launching the EPAC (Entrepreneurs and Podcasters Authentically Connected) community for those in early stages and wanting a place for weekly connection. She still finds a little time for her pursuits as a best-selling author and shares the hosting of Author Express, a podcast that features the voice behind the pages of your favorite book. Find her on Instagram- @ShawnaPodcasts and learn more about the network and other happenings at https://linktr.ee/37by27.

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