You are listening to JFDI with the
two Lauras, the podcast for social
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:media freelancers who want to get more
visible, streamline their systems, master
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:their mindset, and make more sales.
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:I'm Laura Davis and alongside my
co-host at Laura Moore, we are
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:on a mission to make working as a
freelancer easier because working from
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:home shouldn't mean working alone.
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:Hello, and welcome to
a very special episode.
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:This is, I can't quite believe
I'm saying this, but this is
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:our 200th episode of JFDI.
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:How on earth have we got here?
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:It's just mind-boggling.
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:When we very first started this podcast,
we were just like, "Oh, maybe we should
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:start a podcast and see what happens,"
and here we are 200 episodes down.
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:Insane.
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:Obviously, a lot has changed over the
years since we started the podcast.
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:Not just with the podcast, but
in social media in general.
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:So many things have happened.
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:I don't even think reels were
a thing when we first started.
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:I could be wrong.
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:Threads definitely wasn't a thing.
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:I- there was no AI.
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:ChatGPT had never been heard of.
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:The- so much has changed, and obviously so
much has changed in the business as well.
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:I don't think we had the membership
when we very first started.
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:Maybe we did.
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:Again, I can't remember
because so much has changed.
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:But we're 200 episodes in, so we
thought we'd do something different
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:today, and we went out to our community
and gave people the opportunity to
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:ask us anything, and on this episode,
we're gonna answer all your questions.
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:So let's dive in with the very first
question, which came from Emma over on
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:our Instagram stories, and I think this
is a really good one to start with,
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:especially if you're new to the podcast or
if you've never heard this story before.
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:So Emma asked, "Were we actively
looking for a business partner when we
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:first got together, or did it happen
organically, and how did we meet?"
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:No, neither of us were looking for a
business partner when we joined forces.
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:It's not like I was out here
going, "I need to find a business
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:partner," and nor was Laura Davis.
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:We happened to be friends online.
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:To be honest, to start with,
we were competitors, and you've
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:probably heard this story before,
but both of us were competitors.
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:We were both looking for clients,
and at that point, we were both
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:very actively using Facebook, and
specifically Facebook Groups to do that.
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:And what Laura Davis will always say is
that every time she saw somebody asking
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:a question about ads that she thought
she could answer, I would've got there
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:first because I was prolific back then.
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:I was constantly, like, looking for
ways that I could help people to
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:answer questions about social, about
business, about ads, all these things,
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:and that served me very well, and
that's h- how Laura and I first met.
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:We also happened to do the same courses.
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:We were offered in the same communities
in that respect, and we joined
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:forces and became like unofficial
accountability partners, if you like.
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:And we noticed that we were both getting
asked the same questions from social media
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:managers about how to find clients what we
were charging, all these sorts of things.
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:And I remember being on holiday, my
mom lives in Florida, and I remember
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:standing in my mom's swimming pool because
it was so hot, and Laura messaging me
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:saying, "I think we should do something
to help social media managers."
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:And me being like, "Let's
start a membership."
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:And her being like, "Absolutely no way.
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:That's too much.
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:I'm thinking a PDF."
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:And I was like, "Okay, we're
obviously on different paths here."
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:But seven years later, things
have obviously changed massively.
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:We had that conversation.
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:We decided that we would create a PDF
guide that would help social media
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:managers, 'cause we were spending so
much time answering questions from
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:social media managers, more time than
we were, like, helping clients, because
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:our inboxes were just inundated.
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:So we decided we were gonna
create this PDF to help people.
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:That PDF took quite a dramatic turn
and became the very first version of
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:the Social Media Manager's Toolkit.
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:That is back in 2019.
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:And we put all of our templates in there
for how we were writing proposals and
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:doing audits and strategies, and all of
this stuff, like, all went in the toolkit.
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:And in the seven years since we
very first did that, things have
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:obviously changed a lot, both in
business, in how we do things, in
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:social media, and also in the toolkit.
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:We've changed it a huge amount since
that very first iteration, and thousands
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:of social media managers now use it.
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:But it was all so organic.
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:We didn't go out there expecting
to create this business.
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:We didn't even go out there c-
expecting to create the toolkit.
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:We were literally, "We're gonna
create a PDF and give it to people."
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:How things change.
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:Yeah, it's crazy.
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:But how we actually met in real life,
before we created our business and joined
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:forces, I only met Laura once in person.
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:She was absolutely shit-faced,
and we were in London at a party.
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:So she obviously made a good
impression, even though she was drunk.
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:But that was the very first time we met,
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:, Then we, so this is back in 2019,
then we created the Ads Manager
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:Academy, very first iteration of that.
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:So that course has also been
around for a really long time.
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:Obviously, it's been updated and
changed a lot over the years.
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:But we created the Ads Manager Academy.
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:We were both ads managers, obviously still
are, and we wanted to help more social
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:media managers to become ads managers
because obviously there's massive kind
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:of crossover between being a social
media manager and an ads manager, and
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:want- we wanted to help more people to
take on this really lucrative service.
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:So we did that.
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:That was back in 2019.
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:that was maybe a year after we very first
started kind of being accountability
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:partners, friends, what have you
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:Maybe like six months after
we set up the toolkit.
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:Honestly, time's like … I, I don't
even remember what I did yesterday,
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:let alone all this time ago.
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:But yeah, so we did the ads course
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:then we went away together to San Diego.
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:We went to Social Media Marketing World.
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:And then lockdown happened.
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:So we literally had met each other
twice before lockdown, and then we
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:went maybe 18 months, might have even
been longer than that, before ever
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:seeing each other in person again, by
which time we had a thriving business.
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:We had the Social Media Managers
Toolkit, which was doing amazingly.
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:We had the membership.
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:Everything happened so weirdly,
because back then in:
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:everything was weird, right?
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:I know I didn't see Laura's legs
for two years, so we didn't really
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:realize, what we were like in person.
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:And yeah, things were so different.
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:So that's our backstory.
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:That's how we got together.
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:If you're looking for a business
partner, maybe that could happen for you.
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:Maybe you can find someone
organically as well.
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:Depends where you're hanging out,
and I think actually a lot of our
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:members have created incredible
friendships, collaborations,
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:business opportunities together in
a similar way that Laura and I have.
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:They- hopefully they've met each other
more than once, and hopefully sober.
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:But yeah, that's our story.
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:I remember Laura actually
creating our limited company.
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:We were on Zoom.
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:Her husband's an accountant.
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:She set up a limited company and then
said to her husband, "By the way,
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:I've just set up a limited company."
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:And it's like, "What are you doing?"
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:Neither of us knew what we were doing.
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:Crazy that we did all this stuff.
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:But it's worked.
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:So yeah, that's our backstory.
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:Next question.
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:Actually, we've got two questions that
are quite similar from Emma and Katie.
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:Asking, how do we fit it all in?
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:How do we balance family life and work?
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:What does a typical day look like?
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:How do we do a podcast, have kids,
have a membership, all this stuff?
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:Honestly, the answer to that
is I, I don't really know.
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:I don't know how we do it life is
crazy, but our kids are at school,
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:so we do have school hours free.
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:My school day is longer than Laura's
because my son gets picked up from school.
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:He's disabled.
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:He goes to a very specialist
school, which is an hour away.
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:So he gets picked up at 8:00
o'clock in the morning, quite
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:often doesn't get home till 5:00.
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:So I have a nice long day.
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:Laura's is slightly different.
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:Her kids all go to school locally
so her days are quite short.
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:But we do have those school
days, and we do try and use our
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:time as effectively as we can.
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:We have one kind of unwritten rule
in our business, which is Fridays
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:are … I don't wanna say they're a
day off, because quite often we will
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:do work, but that we are not, we
don't commit to working on Fridays.
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:If we do work on a Friday it's because
we want to, and there are things that
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:we want to get done or, things that we
have to get done because we know that not
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:doing them will have an impact next week.
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:But how we fit it all in, I don't know.
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:This is one of the reasons that we've
changed the podcast and we're no longer
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:both on the podcast together so often,
because we just don't have the time.
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:It takes us a long time to record
a podcast, because it's not just
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:me sitting here talking to you.
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:It's the planning, it's the editing,
it's the scheduling of it, it's
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:the writing the email to tell
everyone that the podcast is out.
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:It's the creating social
content, if we do.
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:And I say if we do, 'cause s- quite a
lot of times we forget to do that with
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:the podcast, as you may well know.
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:But when there was the two of us having
to do that, that was even more time
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:for both of us out of other things.
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:So i- it's hard.
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:Because we both have different
responsibilities in our family lives,
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:it's sometimes hard to find time
when we're both together, so there
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:are jobs that we both split out.
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:Laura is very much data, numbers, finance.
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:I'm very much words, like written stuff.
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:So we have our own specific kind of
areas of the business that we look
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:after that are times where we don't
have to work together, but there are
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:times that we do have to work together.
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:And sometimes it's definitely a
massive bonus there being two of us,
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:and other times it's not, because
sometimes it takes longer when
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:there's two, two people doing things.
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:How we balance it with family and life
is just by Wow, I don't really know.
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:Do we balance it?
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:If I was to ask my husband
that, would he say I balance it?
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:I don't know.
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:I've just come back from holiday,
and he did make a comment about how
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:little I was on my phone, so maybe
I am on my phone more than I think.
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:I don't know.
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:I don't think there is such a thing
really as an amazing work-life balance,
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:especially if you love your job.
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:Because oftentimes people think that
to have a good work-life balance,
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:it means that you have to switch off
from your work, and I enjoy my work.
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:I like it, so why do I wanna
switch off from it all the time?
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:I don't always want to do that.
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:To me, that's balance.
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:To you, it might not be.
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:So I don't know if that really answers
the question or really helps anybody,
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:but I think it's important to be
very transparent and very honest that
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:we don't have everything perfect.
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:We may look like we're swans
swimming along, but underneath
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:the surface, our legs are kicking.
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:Things are crazy.
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:We just don't necessarily show it.
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:So hopefully that might even put
your mind at rest that it's not
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:just you if things are a bit crazy
going on in your life as well.
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:I don't know.
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:We were also asked, when
do we plan on retiring?
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:Is that even a possibility?
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:And what do you plan on doing?
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:Right.
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:Can I just say, is someone asking us
this question because we're really old?
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:Because, like, I don't feel that old.
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:I don't feel like I'm
that close to retiring.
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:I don't plan to still be doing this
when I'm 100, and I'm fairly sure
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:Laura Davies would say the same.
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:But currently, both of us feel
like we need to keep working.
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:Like, we enjoy our job.
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:We love our membership.
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:We love running the ads course.
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:We love the toolkit.
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:Everything that we do, we really enjoy.
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:And honestly, I think we both still need
to work to keep our brains alive, right?
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:My mom's got dementia, so I know that
I need to keep my brain active for a
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:start, and this definitely does that.
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:We have no immediate plans to retire.
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:At some point, will we retire?
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:Yes.
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:Come back to us maybe in 10
years' time and ask us the same
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:question, if we're still around,
if we haven't already retired.
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:I mean, obviously we need to be making
our millions before that happens.
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:That's not currently happening.
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:but are there immediate plans to retire?
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:No.
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:Do we plan on retiring?
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:Yes, absolutely.
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:What do we plan on doing when we retire?
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:I don't know.
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:I find it very difficult to look that
far ahead because for the last 17 years
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:with William, I've not been able to
look far ahead because there's always
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:been something going on with him,
whether it's like we're coming up to an
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:operation or, you know, whatever it is.
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:And I don't know what the future
looks like as a parent with a
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:disabled child who I'm gonna have to
look after for the rest of my life.
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:So thinking about retiring is
like, it's just not even really
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:on my radar 'cause I'm…
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:What's on my radar is like what's
happening next with William.
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:And although Laura's children are
not disabled, I would imagine she's
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:having similar thoughts in her head,
like what happens next with her kids?
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:Like one of her kids is
just moving to high school.
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:So we're still at those stages of
what's happening next in our lives
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:right now rather than what's happening
10 years, 15 years out, whatever.
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:but will we retire?
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:Abso-bloody-lutely.
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:Will I be lying on a
beach when that happens?
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:I would hope so, but it might have
to be a wheelchair accessible one.
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:yeah, so I don't know if that really
is a good answer to the question, but
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:that's what, that's all I got for you.
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:Katie asked us a very interesting
question, which was, "What
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:animal, color, and shape would you
describe each other as, and why?"
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:And I put a lot of thought into my answer
when I answered this to Laura in Slack.
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:And I said if she was an animal, she
would be a cat, because people have to
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:work really hard for her to trust them
or for her to even really be interested
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:in them, in the nicest possible way.
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:Laura is very much somebody who
she doesn't trust you unless
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:you've built trust, whereas
I'm very much the other way.
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:I trust people until they
give me a reason not to.
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:So I think she would be a cat.
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:For color, I said she'd be orange,
because it very much depends what
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:it's paired with as to whether it's
a neutral color or a fiery one.
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:And in some situations she's very
calm, very collected, very neutral,
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:and in other si- times she can be the
opposite and be lairy, and loud, and
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:fiery, and I think that's a great thing.
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:So I said she'd be orange.
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:And then the final thing was the shape.
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:I said Laura would be a triangle
because I feel like she has three sides.
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:She has the side that you guys
see, the side she shows to her
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:customers, all of that helpful stuff.
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:There's a different side that I see when
we're spending our days on Zoom, and
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:I expect that there's probably another
side that she shows to her family.
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:And I think she's layered.
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:So I know an onion isn't a s- shape,
but if it was, she'd be an onion.
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:So I put a lot of thought into
that when I was sat in the garden
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:sending her this Slack message.
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:She sent me a message with my answers and
then in brackets, "According to Claude."
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:I was like, "Great, so
you've basically cheated."
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:But this is what Claude thinks I would be.
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:I'm not giving Laura the credit
for this, 'cause she didn't do it.
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:She said I would be a border collie
because I'm razor sharp, always
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:working, and I herd chaos into order.
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:I am down with that.
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:Love it Color-wise, I'd be
yellow because I'm bright, I get
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:shit done, and I'm always on.
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:Nice.
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:Okay, I'll take it.
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:And for my shape, a square because I
am solid, structured, and reliable, and
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:everything is organized and in its place.
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:I can just say this proves that Laura
has not been to my house because my
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:husband would laugh if I said that to him.
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:Everything is not organized in my house.
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:My house is a mess.
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:Don't even think about
going to my bedroom.
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:You know, People have a chair in their
bedroom and they call it the chair-drobe.
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:I had, have a chair-drobe.
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:I have a floor-drobe.
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:There is stuff everywhere.
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:Just come back from holiday, I've unpacked
my suitcase, but I haven't put stuff away.
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:It's all over the side.
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:There's literally stuff everywhere.
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:Everything is not organized.
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:Nothing is in its place.
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:Maybe in the business,
but not in real life.
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:But yeah, I love that
question, so that was great.
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:Next question was: what was the
first job you do- both did that
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:was related to social media?
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:So mine was I used to run a blog.
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:I-- when William was younger, I had
to do quite a lot of fundraising
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:because I didn't have a job obviously.
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:We needed to pay for lots of therapy,
and I had to fundraise quite a
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:lot to be able to cover that.
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:I also had to fundraise to make
some adaptions to our house.
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:Don't know if you know, but when you
need to make adaptions to your house,
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:you can get a grant from the council,
which is capped at 30,000 pounds,
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:and we had to extend our whole house
to make it wheelchair accessible,
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:and 30 grand was not gonna cover it.
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:So I had to fundraise for that.
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:So I started a blog and
a social page to do that.
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:So this-- it wasn't really a job.
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:No one was paying me.
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:It was just a fundraising page.
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:But that was my first kind of go
into social media and, I raised
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:a lot of money all from Facebook.
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:Facebook changed our lives.
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:It changed our house.
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:It made our house completely
accessible for William.
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:I then started campaigning for other
things for the wider disabled community,
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:and that all happened on Facebook as well.
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:And that was all before I
started my cake company.
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:I used to teach cake decorating.
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:Funnily enough, so did Laura, and
I used social media to promote my
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:courses, my classes, my courses.
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:And kinda before that, I didn't ever--
I never worked in an employed role
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:whilst when social media was a thing.
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:I was always already
self-employed by then.
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:But I did used to work in a
bank, a large bank, and I was
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:responsible for the company intranet.
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:So it's not like the social media net,
but like the intranet where all the
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:information for the company was stored,
and there was like chat channels in there.
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:So I was responsible for that,
which now looking back is like
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:crazy how that used to work.
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:But yeah, so that's where I started.
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:Laura Davis was slightly different.
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:She worked in the voluntary sector
she was in charge of a youth project
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:where they were using social media,
and specifically Facebook, as a way
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:to communicate with young refugees.
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:So she was responsible for, like, how
they would do that how they would use
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:Facebook to connect with these, with the
youth, who are probably no longer youths
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:because that's how long ago it was.
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:But yeah, so that's how
we first got started.
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:And somebody else, I think
it was Katie, also asked how
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:did we get into Facebook Ads?
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:How did we start doing that?
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:Where did we learn, et cetera?
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:And both of us were self-taught with that.
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:As I said, I had a cake company, so
did Laura, and we started running
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:ads when they very first came out
to promote our cake businesses.
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:We didn't know each other then.
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:I'd never heard of her, although
funnily enough, I knew of the company,
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:one of the companies that she worked
for, but I'd never come across her.
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:Honestly, life is so weird.
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:But we both ha- we both have so- such
similar backgrounds, and pretty much
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:as soon as ads were a thing, we were
both running ads, spending our own
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:money to promote our, our cake courses.
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:Over the years, we both
dipped into courses.
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:We used to learn from Rick Mulready.
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:He used to be a big name in
the Facebook kind of sector.
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:So we both learnt from him.
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:We both did Facebook certifications,
which to be honest, were
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:not worth the money at all.
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:In the last few years, we've
both learnt from Andrew Foxwell.
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:And over the years, I don't
even know how many years it's
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:been since we've been doing ads.
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:I'd have to look for when they
first rolled out on Facebook,
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:but it's been a long time.
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:And since then, if I had to hazard a
guess of how many businesses either of
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:us has worked with or trained or managed
their ads, it's gotta be in the hundreds.
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:Like literally hundreds of businesses
and hundreds of ad accounts that
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:we've been in, which is just insane.
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:Like managing ads, training people
to manage their own ads, going and
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:troubleshooting the ads auditing.
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:God, there's so many things we've
done in the ads world in those, those
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:years, which is yeah it's been a lot.
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:It's been a lot Yeah.
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:Looking back, it's crazy to think how many
things have changed, not just in our own
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:lives and our own businesses, but also
like, in the social media kind of world.
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:Ads are so different now than they
were when we very first started.
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:Like f- Facebook was the big thing
back then, and now not so much.
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:Although I am still a bit of
a Facebook girl, I must say.
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:But yeah, interesting to kind
of have a think back over that.
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:And equally as interesting
that this is our 200th episode.
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:I cannot believe this is 200 episodes in.
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:It's crazy.
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:I hope that you still enjoy
listening to the podcast.
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:And I hope you will continue
with us along on the ride.
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:Let us know the things that you'd love
us to talk about on the podcast because
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:200 episodes in, sometimes we struggle
to think about what we should talk about,
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:and we always wanna make sure that the
content we're giving you is what you want.
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:So please don't ever hesitate to
drop into our DMs and say, "Hey,
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:Lauras, can you record a podcast
about this, that, and the other?"
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:And, if we think it will be helpful to
the wider community, we absolutely will.
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:We're always happy to share our
thoughts on things, our experiences
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:on things, go and do research and
share what we think about things that
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:are coming up, all of those sorts of
things, predictions, what have you.
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:Just ask us.
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:We are an open book.
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:Drop into our Instagram DMs @ thetwolauras
and literally ask us anything anytime.
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:It's what we're here for.
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:We wanna make sure that you still
continue to enjoy this podcast
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:as we go into episode 250, 300.
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