Three Ways to Stop Being So Distracted
Episode 1413rd September 2025 • I Love Coaching Podcast • I Love Coaching Co.
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In this episode, Adam Roach and Jess Webber delve into the pervasive issue of distraction and its impact on focus and productivity. They discuss the concept of 'diluted focus' and how multitasking is often a disguise for distraction rather than a productive strategy. The discussion highlights the dopamine trap that many individuals, especially entrepreneurs, fall into, leading them to seek constant novelty and distraction. Adam and Jess propose practical strategies for overcoming these challenges, including creating short-term filters for success and embracing the joy of missing out on distractions. They emphasize the importance of commitment and intentionality in achieving goals and maintaining focus.

Takeaways

Most people have a focus problem, not a time problem.

Diluted focus leads to diluted results.

Multitasking is a myth; it’s just distraction.

Dopamine hits can lead to addiction to distractions.

Creating a short-term filter can help maintain focus.

Joy of missing out (JOMO) is better than fear of missing out (FOMO).

Commitment means doing what you said you would do.

Distractions steal your freedom and joy.

Challenge yourself to stay focused for short periods.

Be present where your feet are planted.

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00:00 Chasing Shiny Objects: The Focus Problem

04:56 The Myth of Multitasking

09:33 Understanding the Dopamine Trap

16:26 Creating a Short-Term Filter for Success

22:14 Detaching from Distractions and Finding Joy


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