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BECKY.: it's a total nightmare as any type of normal human being where you
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lost the person you love, not only that, but everyone thinks you're crazy.
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Welcome to Reading Under the Covers, a romance novel podcast
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where we chat, fangirl, and maybe even swoon over our latest reads.
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I'm Francesca from Under the Covers Book Blog, and today we are doing
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our first discussion episode of the Ripped and Ravished Book Club
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for the period of May and June.
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And this time we're gonna be discussing A Knight in Shining
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Armor by Jude Deveraux So this is part one of a two-part discussion.
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In this episode, we're discussing chapters one through 18, and in
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the next episode, we pick up on chapter 19 and finish the book.
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I hope that you guys are following along.
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This is an iconic book, in my opinion, in the romance genre.
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And I wanted to make sure we included it this year, even though it's not quite
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as bodice rippery as the other ones we've discussed so far in the book club
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it is published a little bit later.
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It's a 1989 publishing year.
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And I actually thought about picking a previous book in this series, but this
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book is so iconic, I didn't want to not include it and not talk about it.
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Now, something that is a little bit different in this episode is
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that I've already read this book.
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I read it probably 10 years ago, and Becky, who is my co-host here for
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the Ripped and Ravished Book Club from the Too Stupid To Live podcast,
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she hasn't read it yet, so this is a first time reading it for her.
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So you're gonna get both points of view as we talk about this
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And I can't wait to hear from you guys as well.
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What are your thoughts?
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What did you think about it?
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Was it the first time reading it, or are you rereading it as well?
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And how do you feel about it today?
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So as always with the Ripped and Ravished Book Club, I hope that you reply to the
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emails, you come and comment on the blog, and just join in on the conversation and
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let us know how you feel about the story.
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I will leave all the links for that in the description box down below.
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If you're not subscribed to the email newsletter for the Ripped and Ravished
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Book Club, I will leave that down below as well so you can subscribe and get
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those emails so you can come and interact with us there as well but with no more
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delays, let's get into our discussion of A Knight in Shining Armor by Jude
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Deveraux, chapters 1 through chapter 18
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FRANCESCA : I am so excited because I feel like this is gonna
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be a different conversation.
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What do you think?
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BECKY.: This was, it's gonna be a different conversation
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'cause it's a different book.
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It's a different book, yeah
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FRANCESCA : I mean, kind of intentionally, , it's different.
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Also, I should say, when I was originally thinking about books there, 'cause this
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is like, I think book 13 or something like that in a series, even though
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it's like totally fine as a standalone.
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So I had thought about a different book in the series earlier, and
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I was reading about it and I was like, well, maybe it's time for
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like something a little bit lighter.
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BECKY.: Yes.
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Yeah, yeah,
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FRANCESCA : We, we need a little break from the, uh, the same
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conversations, you know what I mean?
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BECKY.: 100%.
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Like, I feel like this is kind of like, okay, this is like we are in a, it's
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like a fish-out-of-water rom-com, or it is a fish-out-of-water rom-com,
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which felt very '80s, um, humor-wise.
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Um, and but also kind of, you kind of still see the,
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the tropes being formulated.
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I mean, we've only read one through 18, but you're still seeing kind of like a
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lot of the tropes that we know and love today, kind of you're seeing like the…
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I mean, I know there were other books, but you're kind
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of seeing the birth of them, if
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FRANCESCA : Yeah.
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Right?
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Right?
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Yeah, and I mean, I, I haven't, like, researched enough of, like, 1980s
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romance, but I feel like we definitely see the, the switch, you know, from
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how the other ones are, were very much on the forced seduction and the
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really, um, aggressive alpha in a way.
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But here, even though, I mean, he's still an alpha hero, but you're already starting
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to see that change, and I don't know if, like, it was around this time or if it
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was earlier in the '80s, but when we read Tender Is, Is the Storm, which was also
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an '80s romance, it still wasn't there.
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So I think that was '85.
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So I'm thinking that this is more of, like, that pivotal change
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BECKY.: is something there.
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Like, whether or not he's, like, changing or are we as readers, like, kind of
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giving him a pass because he is from 1534 and, we're like, "Okay, he's just a
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sign-" But, um, it, like, 'cause that's what I originally thought, you know?
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But then, like, as we're getting to know him and seeing him and almost,
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like, kind of lear- Like, it's the, it's the listening, it's the learning,
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and it's the bringing the nuance.
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Like, I think something that I really appreciated was, was, is whenever he
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talks about his mom, and, and how, like, you know, he, seeing her as, like, not
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that, like, this is the bare minimum.
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He saw his mom as a multifaceted individual.
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Like, great job, dude.
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But it wa- it is, like, really refreshing to see, you know, especially, like, with
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some of the arguments that we kind of see towards historical fiction and historical
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romance of, like, oh, this person wouldn't have, like, these people wouldn't have
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been happy, or this person wouldn't have been this or that because of the times.
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And it's like, well, no, everyone, we're fully realized human beings,
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and I was really refreshing
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FRANCESCA : Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I mean, there were a couple of parts that I thought exactly that, like when,
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uh, he was faced with how women were, or society at large in the '80s, were
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seeing people of his time, and the women and the situations they were in.
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And he's reflecting back of obviously his very privileged, um, status because
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his mother would not have been…
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And, and, and the heroine in this book points that out to him, "Well, I mean,
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your mother would not have been the, the norm." But he was like, "Yeah, well,
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yeah, my, my mother's husband would not have been able to tell her X, Y, and
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Z," like, yeah, how that would've gone.
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But, and he starts to, like you said, learn, 'cause then he's
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receiving that information.
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It's like, "Oh yeah, maybe you're right. Like, that was not the
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norm." So I really appreciated that.
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I'm like, okay, well that's refreshing to start to see that,
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BECKY.: Right.
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Yeah, 'cause you see like both of them learning.
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And I think like for us as we're trying to like understand our world now and looking
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to the past, it's really easy to kind of generalize what everyone's thoughts were
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based on what kind of the law and the government was at the time, without kind
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of like taking into account like what it's like for everyday people and the nuance of
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everyday people, which is difficult to do.
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You can't like, you know, l- ask every individual in the past like
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how they feel about something.
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But it just like kind of like reminds you, it's like, yeah, these were human beings.
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These are people, and they all have their own stories, you know?
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FRANCESCA : Yeah.
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And also speaking of some of the 1500s of what he was like, uh, I feel like it's
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also a bit of like the classic rake trope because, like, th- this was textbook.
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You know what I mean?
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BECKY.: yeah.
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And it was actually like almost- I- I've been listening to the audiobook off of
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Libby, um, 'cause I'm supporting my local library 'cause I'm such a good person.
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Um, Um, and so like the, the narrator that I'm listening to is having
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so- it's such an enjoyable listen.
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He is having so… It- this is like why I love romance audiobooks, 'cause
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this narrator is just having the time of his life narrating this.
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And so when like, he's like giving the tour and, um, he's kind of, um… I
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don't know when this was recorded, but like when he's like telling the tour
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group that like Nicholas, he was, as they put it back then, a notorious rake,
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and like, just like, you almost like hear the audio narrator kind of being
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like, "Do you like this romance readers?
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We've got the tropes." You know, it was very fun.
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It was really enjoyable.
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FRANCESCA : Love that.
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Love it.
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It's been like when I first read this book, I listened to the audiobook
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and I remember enjoying it so much.
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Um, and so this time I'm like, I'm gonna actually, I'm gonna read.
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I could not find like an original copy.
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This is from like the 2000s.
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Hopefully nothing was changed.
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I don't know.
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I doubt it, but
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BECKY.: it's interesting 'cause like, with this project that we're doing
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of like, how much can be changed?
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You know what I-- Like, I understand, like, 'cause like now for example,
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this isn't a-- the best one-to-one, but like with something like Ruby
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Dixon, you know how like she 10 years ago put out Ice Planet Barbarians,
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five years ago changed the one.
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And it's a big change, I would say, to be more sensitive towards readers
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and it's like, okay, what is-- how much can you change from like a book
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that you wrote in the 1970s if you're being, if you're re-releasing it?
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I guess it's the author's prerogative, but
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FRANCESCA : Yeah.
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Yeah I actually, I prefer to keep the things the way they are, and then
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obviously you come in as a reader and you have a brain and you have discernment
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and you can, you know, understand.
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Because it's also kind of like a historical record, you know
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BECKY.: Yeah.
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FRANCESCA : If we just go back in and modify everything, like it's funny, I was,
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I scrolled past this post on Instagram the other day, and it was somebody
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complaining about a book that was, I think, written in the two- mid-2000s, and
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they were reading it now as an e-book.
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And it's something that they've owned on their Kindle since back then,
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and they picked it up to, reread it, and it said something about TikTok
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and, the music, like the artists and stuff are, like, new artists.
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So even to, do something like that, I feel like what's the point?
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'Cause, the whole point is to see what was popular in that time.
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You know what I mean?
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Like, there was no TikTok and these artists didn't exist, so why can't we, why
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can't we just know what are the popular TV shows that they were watching at the
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time and the music they were listening to?
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And I feel like you do miss something by editing that out.
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BECKY.: Totally, 'cause like, you know, to get all like frou-frou, when
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an author is publishing a book, no matter where or when it takes place,
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no matter what the premise is, it is kind of a product of the times we live
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in, even if it is a historical romance.
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Like, there is always gonna be something that kind of reflects
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kind of our modern experience.
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And so yeah, I think kind of constantly going back and editing,
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again, it's the author's prerogative.
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You know, maybe are you kind of like, um, tarn- not tarnishing, um, but just like
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kind of it's dulling the lust, the, the, the shine of the original a little bit.
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And then there's also the kind of more scarier part of it, of like,
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okay, well are you censoring yourself?
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are you going too far?
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Like, are you being pressured by your publisher, let's say, to fix this because
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of this, and you want appeal to that?
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Like, then that gets like a little, concerning, so
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FRANCESCA : Yeah, and I feel like that's a, something that we've even heard about
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or that have, has been going on more, like in the past probably 10 years.
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I never heard about a book getting revised 20 years ago.
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You know what I mean?
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So it's a more recent development, which I find fascinating.
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BECKY.: Yeah, it is, it is like kind of a scary, it is a scary thing just
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because of where we are now at least in the United States, maybe the whole world.
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Mm. Um, I, you know, like it's like, okay, what are you, what are we exemplifying?
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'Cause like you don't realize like, oh my God, just a small
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edit to make so-and-so happy.
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Like the, I didn't reali- like, I guess maybe 'cause like I'm watching the
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final season of Hacks right now, and so I'm kind like been on my mind of like,
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okay, well like how far does this go?
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And like when we like censor something like, oh, is it, are we setting a larger
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precedent for, you know, something else?
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I don't know.
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FRANCESCA : yeah.
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I think it does open the door for that, for sure.
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For sure.
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And plus, you don't get the enjoyment, like you just said, like you started
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reading this, and it feels like a product of the '80s, and there is joy in that.
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Like, yes, I do-- When I'm in the mood to read something like that, I wanna
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be able to pick that up, and I know that that's the vibe I'm gonna get,
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which I definitely think that this
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BECKY.: 100%.
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'Cause like, I feel like, like honestly, like the humor-wise, I
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think that like this is such a fun rom-com with- that is so reminiscent
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of like an '80s silly comedy.
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It honestly like sort of reminded me of a John Hughes movie in a way, of just
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like really, really having fun with this fish out of water, what would a, um,
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knight from fif- 1534 or whatever, how would he react to ice cream, and how
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would he react to the smallest things like a calculator and stuff like that?
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And just like I l- I love that kind of stuff.
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You know, coming from an improv background, coming from a comedy
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background, just thinking about what is in his environment, being
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in his character, seeing what he is seeing with his own eyes, and just
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pushing it to a 10 with the humor.
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I am like, that, that is what makes telling this story in novel form so
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much more fun than if we were watching this as a m- which it would make for
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a great movie that I would love, but
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it just wouldn't have as much fun with like him trying to
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like understand a zipper,
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you know what I Like…
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FRANCESCA : Yes.
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Oh my God.
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Yeah.
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And actually, it, that, that exactly that part, like him learning all of those
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things, it's one of the things that I remember the most about reading it 10
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years ago, and I'm like, oh my God,
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like him in the dressing room was like imprinted here.
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He's like, "What is that?" and then after when he goes to put on the pants
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by himself and he's like, "Oh, shit."
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Like,
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Yeah, like that's
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gotta be careful.
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BECKY.: Yeah, that's a dangerous thing.
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And then also something that I've realized, 'cause I have seen this in
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other kind of fish-out-of-water-style, like, stories is, is someone from the
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past or someone from a different dimension trying ice cream for the first Like,
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there's nothing like a, a fish out of water try- that first taste of ice cream
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when they realize how amazing it is.
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And like I, I- ice cream is probably one of my favorite foods, so almost like I
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feel like that's become such a micro trope as well of just the, just ice cream in
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particular, or just like something that, that we all-- like, is such an indulgence,
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you know, and trying it for the first time
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FRANCESCA : Or when he was like, " there's a fountain inside the house.
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The water is coming out right there."
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Baths.
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There were baths.
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BECKY.: There were baths and, and also like him not understand.
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Yeah, like, it's like it's warm.
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FRANCESCA : But the baths here were, were so, like it was intentional because
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it was the discovery of the bath and then, you know, some sexy times as well.
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It's like I thought about that and I thought that that would be really good.
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BECKY.: Yeah, and I mean, he figured out how to use the shower
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way quicker than I usually do when I go to hotel room for first time.
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I'm like, "How does this thing turn on?" And he got it, so
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FRANCESCA : He, listen, I feel like there is something I can say for his character
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for, especially for like a knight in the 1500s, he was very adaptable.
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He adapted so quickly to everything, picked up on things fast, and
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also there was a lot of like curiosity, which I really enjoy.
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Like you get that feeling of curiosity from him whenever he's discovering
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these things, and I feel like that part was also what made the whole
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experience of how would he react.
Francesca:
00:15:12
But he's not, you know, like, 'cause he could have reacted to like being
Francesca:
00:15:14
scared of what is this thing talking like in this screen or whatever.
Francesca:
00:15:19
But it was about curiosity more so than like feeling threatened
Francesca:
00:15:23
by the technology, which I loved
Francesca:
00:15:25
BECKY.: I- it is so delightful, and I c- n- I know that he's supposed to be this,
Francesca:
00:15:29
like, romantic figure, um, but it's hard for me not to compare him to watching
Francesca:
00:15:34
children grow up com- be- from babies.
Francesca:
00:15:37
Like, I, it…
Francesca:
00:15:38
One of my, like, fondest memories is when my niece discovered what a ser-
Francesca:
00:15:43
a serving spoon was, and was just amazed by how big this serving spoon
Francesca:
00:15:48
was, and it was like her l- looking…
Francesca:
00:15:50
It was like her seeing the Grand Canyon for the first time, just like,
Francesca:
00:15:53
"Oh, my God, this is the biggest spoon." So it, he, he has that
Francesca:
00:15:57
moment when he sees something, like, as benign to me as a calculator.
Francesca:
00:16:02
I, it, that, which now these days is even just, like, old-school technology.
Francesca:
00:16:06
We, that, that is even, you know, archaic, and him just being,
Francesca:
00:16:11
"What is this contraption?"
Francesca:
00:16:13
Like, I mean, like, it's like those moments that, like, it's the reason
Francesca:
00:16:18
why we, like, love watching kids grow up, but it's also the reason why
Francesca:
00:16:22
we love the humor of, of this type of trope, of this type of fish out
Francesca:
00:16:27
of water time travel kind of comedy
Francesca:
00:16:29
FRANCESCA : Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:16:30
Which is adorable, and I think it's gonna be a nice juxtaposition when we do get
Francesca:
00:16:36
into the second part of this book and, you know, things are a little bit, uh, turned.
Francesca:
00:16:41
T- tables are turned, you know?
Francesca:
00:16:43
But,
Francesca:
00:16:44
BECKY.: Table- not on the table, they're turned
Francesca:
00:16:46
FRANCESCA : no, not on that table.
Francesca:
00:16:48
BECKY.: And not on that table.
Francesca:
00:16:49
Well, you know what's interesting, I haven't read this book before, and
Francesca:
00:16:51
so where we cut off is at the point where w- I feel gaslit, like almost
Francesca:
00:16:58
like… And I know, know it, and that
Francesca:
00:17:00
FRANCESCA : That was an
Francesca:
00:17:00
BECKY.: dream.
Francesca:
00:17:01
FRANCESCA : that was an intentional cut.
Francesca:
00:17:03
BECKY.: Yes, it really was.
Francesca:
00:17:05
But like, it's like, oh, like structurally it's like, okay,
Francesca:
00:17:08
what a great midpoint of book.
Francesca:
00:17:10
FRANCESCA : 'Cause I'm like, it's not quite, we're past the midpoint, but
Francesca:
00:17:13
I'm like, well, we gotta stop it there.
Francesca:
00:17:14
We can't stop it at the midpoint.
Francesca:
00:17:16
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:17:17
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:17:17
Which it, it's, what-- It's so compelling because you're just like, "Oh my God,
Francesca:
00:17:21
did everything happen?" Um, and so it was really hard for me to, like, not
Francesca:
00:17:25
want to keep listening last night.
Francesca:
00:17:27
I I sto- you know, and so I had, I forced myself to stop listening.
Francesca:
00:17:32
FRANCESCA : it down, put it down, 'cause then it's gonna blend together.
Francesca:
00:17:35
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:17:35
BECKY.: Totally, to- 'cause yeah, I didn't wanna spoil anything for who
Francesca:
00:17:38
are, be reading it for the first time.
Francesca:
00:17:40
Um, but I do think it's important to say, as fun as this book was and, and
Francesca:
00:17:44
as, you know, I, um, more palatable as I would say the storytelling is, y- there's
Francesca:
00:17:50
still moments that kind you cringe.
Francesca:
00:17:53
You know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:17:53
Just in terms of, like, particularly her character, particularly part
Francesca:
00:17:57
where she drugs someone, you know, like how it that felt very '80s, but
Francesca:
00:18:02
it also is a little cringe-worthy.
Francesca:
00:18:04
And, um, so it's, like, kind of, you kind of have those moments there
Francesca:
00:18:08
while you're reading or listening
Francesca:
00:18:09
FRANCESCA : Yeah, and something else that I was thinking about her character
Francesca:
00:18:12
because she did feel like an '80s heroine, because I feel like at the time it
Francesca:
00:18:17
was all about that damsel in distress.
Francesca:
00:18:19
You know, she's very naive.
Francesca:
00:18:21
She needs rescuing.
Francesca:
00:18:22
Obviously, it's a knight in shining armor coming to rescue her.
Francesca:
00:18:25
So that felt very '80s, for sure.
Francesca:
00:18:28
But also I kind of feel like, and this could just be me and what I'm seeing, I
Francesca:
00:18:32
kind of feel like that kind of heroine is making a comeback, where we used
Francesca:
00:18:35
to have really strong heroines for a while, and now I am seeing more of
Francesca:
00:18:39
that naive heroine peeking through.
Francesca:
00:18:42
So, uh, it's interesting seeing that cycle where we, we do, we do see
Francesca:
00:18:47
some of that, the traits of Dougless.
Francesca:
00:18:50
I think that's how you say her name.
Francesca:
00:18:51
I'm not
Francesca:
00:18:52
BECKY.: I've been-- He says Dougless on the thing.
Francesca:
00:18:54
This-- And believe I was confused in chapter one.
Francesca:
00:18:56
I was like, "Dougless?" Okay, but then
Francesca:
00:18:58
FRANCESCA : 'Cause I'm like, is this supposed to be said differently?
Francesca:
00:19:01
I'm just going with it.
Francesca:
00:19:03
Uh, but yeah, she definitely felt very naive.
Francesca:
00:19:05
Also, um, her self-esteem is on the floor, which I just… Oh my
Francesca:
00:19:13
God, I struggle with that so much.
Francesca:
00:19:15
And like, hearing and seeing her going through the emotions and how she was
Francesca:
00:19:20
belittling herself, and especially as it relates to her previous relationship
Francesca:
00:19:26
and how, um, her relationship with her family and all of that.
Francesca:
00:19:30
It, like that was so hard to, you know, to see
Francesca:
00:19:37
BECKY.: almost, as a person listening to this in 2026, it almost felt comical
Francesca:
00:19:42
because it's like all of her ex- all of her exes, they're not just, like,
Francesca:
00:19:45
assholes who moved on with their lives.
Francesca:
00:19:47
They're in jail, they're thi- Like, it's just like, it's so heightened.
Francesca:
00:19:51
And, yeah, just like the way her, herself…
Francesca:
00:19:54
Like, some of the things that she says aloud felt like almost a little like
Francesca:
00:19:58
an SNL parody of, like, "I can't go out with, like, out- my under eye concealer,"
Francesca:
00:20:03
or something like that, you know?
Francesca:
00:20:04
Which was, like, y- funny, but like… And funny to me on a level that maybe
Francesca:
00:20:10
when it was written at the time was just like, "Isn't this life, ladies?"
Francesca:
00:20:14
And I'm reading it thinking, "Oh wow, this is, like, a really
Francesca:
00:20:17
good parody of, like, the single woman who can't catch a man," you
Francesca:
00:20:21
FRANCESCA : Yeah, for sure.
Francesca:
00:20:22
Um, and also her, well, I- I'll call him her ex, but you know, Robert, comically,
Francesca:
00:20:28
BECKY.: Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:20:29
FRANCESCA : cartoonishly villain, like, horrible person
Francesca:
00:20:34
BECKY.: Yes,
Francesca:
00:20:35
FRANCESCA : the extreme.
Francesca:
00:20:37
BECKY.: And his daughter.
Francesca:
00:20:38
Like, I mean, I, it's, This is another reason why it felt very '80s is that,
Francesca:
00:20:42
like, I think in, like, at, in the movies at the time, all of the side characters
Francesca:
00:20:48
except for, to, like, for us to really feel for the protagonists, they were just,
Francesca:
00:20:52
like, like, portrayed via their archetype.
Francesca:
00:20:57
They were so, like, like, kind of exaggerated in a way.
Francesca:
00:21:01
His daughter was, like, j-just the, I don't know, like, this young m-m,
Francesca:
00:21:08
like, wife of Macbeth or something.
Francesca:
00:21:11
what I mean?
Francesca:
00:21:12
Like, just, like, kind of like she reminds you of, like, the
Francesca:
00:21:16
Heathers from that movie, you know?
Francesca:
00:21:17
Like, there's nothing about her that's like, you don't see any,
Francesca:
00:21:20
like, kind of nuanced soft side to any side character at all.
Francesca:
00:21:24
There's no-- Yeah.
Francesca:
00:21:26
Yeah
Francesca:
00:21:27
FRANCESCA : I mean, from the moment that, like, Robert is like, "Okay, so
Francesca:
00:21:30
tally up what's the expenses, and oh, by the way, so now you gotta pay for half.
Francesca:
00:21:34
And then oh, by the way, my daughter's coming, but no,
Francesca:
00:21:36
you still have to pay for half
Francesca:
00:21:38
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:21:38
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:21:39
And it
Francesca:
00:21:39
FRANCESCA : you get the privilege of spending time with her."
Francesca:
00:21:42
BECKY.: Exactly, yeah.
Francesca:
00:21:43
Just the lack of self-awareness of the, of all of the side characters
Francesca:
00:21:48
kinds of, kind of makes it seem- It, it adds to the humor 100%, adds to
Francesca:
00:21:53
the, to the enjoyability of the book.
Francesca:
00:21:56
But it is just, like very silly
Francesca:
00:21:58
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:21:59
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:21:59
So and I think in, in some ways it adds to the lightness of this first half,
Francesca:
00:22:06
you know, 'cause like it's very rom-comy in a way before we get more serious.
Francesca:
00:22:12
Um, so I do, I do enjoy that.
Francesca:
00:22:15
Um, but yeah, definitely it felt very heightened, And also, and I don't
Francesca:
00:22:19
know, this could just be me, and I don't remember when I first read
Francesca:
00:22:22
it how I felt about Dougless, and obviously we just said that she has
Francesca:
00:22:26
her confidence issues and stuff, but sometimes she came across as not likable
Francesca:
00:22:32
BECKY.: Uh, you know, I, I completely agree.
Francesca:
00:22:34
I- there were parts where that kind of, w- she had thoughts about the, um,
Francesca:
00:22:34
daughter's weight, you know, like that she would kind of insult her in her head
Francesca:
00:22:34
based on her weight, and that kind of was like, I don't… This is not something
Francesca:
00:22:35
that I would like in a real person.
Francesca:
00:22:35
That
Francesca:
00:22:42
FRANCESCA : Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:22:53
BECKY.: is not something I would like in a fictional person.
Francesca:
00:22:57
And so I understand, like, it's, uh, like, it's something that, like, I, as
Francesca:
00:23:02
someone who has been called unlikable, like, I take to heart very much.
Francesca:
00:23:07
Um, and it's like, okay, b- but there were, but I will say there were times
Francesca:
00:23:13
where she did think of something that, like, legit was hurtful, I think, to,
Francesca:
00:23:18
like, people based on how they look, and, like, I'm like, "Okay, I think
Francesca:
00:23:22
I'm allowed to not like her," 'cause lot, not like her in that moment
Francesca:
00:23:27
FRANCESCA : In that moment,
Francesca:
00:23:27
BECKY.: there are other times, I think that's, like, the thing is, like,
Francesca:
00:23:30
with characters, like, you say make them likable, make them unlikable,
Francesca:
00:23:34
but it's like, it's not about likability, it's about relatability.
Francesca:
00:23:37
And, like, you're not supposed to l- you don't, we don't like our
Francesca:
00:23:42
loved ones 100% of time, you know?
Francesca:
00:23:45
Like, there are times when we're annoyed with them, and disappointed, and all that
Francesca:
00:23:48
stuff, and it's the same with characters.
Francesca:
00:23:50
Um, so there were times when I was impressed with her was when,
Francesca:
00:23:54
you know, she, like, do- she is, like, really enthusiastic.
Francesca:
00:23:58
She is so freaking smart, and knows her history, and all this
Francesca:
00:24:03
stuff, and she's really intuitive, and I like her then, for sure.
Francesca:
00:24:06
I'm, like, on her side
Francesca:
00:24:08
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:24:09
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:24:09
She was also really resourceful in like, "Okay, so we gotta get this done. We
Francesca:
00:24:13
gotta figure this out. Here's what I know, and here's where we can get more
Francesca:
00:24:17
information, and here's where I need to go to get that information," and
Francesca:
00:24:21
like going through the books and stuff.
Francesca:
00:24:22
Uh, but that like going back to the then not liking, um, then she would think
Francesca:
00:24:27
of, oh, well, he can't read, so I'm gonna say something about like, "Well,
Francesca:
00:24:32
I guess I'll teach you how to read."
Francesca:
00:24:34
What do you mean he can't read?
Francesca:
00:24:35
You know that he was writing a letter to his mother when he came
Francesca:
00:24:41
through, so why would you even think that just because he can't read
Francesca:
00:24:45
the text you have in front of you?
Francesca:
00:24:46
Like-
Francesca:
00:24:47
BECKY.: It was a little confusing 'cause like, like, I understand there's like
Francesca:
00:24:52
Old English where there's just like words that are spelled a different
Francesca:
00:24:55
way like, "What is that?" And yeah, but if he's understanding Shakespeare,
Francesca:
00:25:00
we should understand… Then he would understand us because we all still
Francesca:
00:25:04
study Shakespeare, you know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:25:06
So there is like a, there is a way, there is a connection there
Francesca:
00:25:11
FRANCESCA : Yeah, I mean, I had my moments with her.
Francesca:
00:25:13
Um, probably I found him a little bit more likable than her because of that,
Francesca:
00:25:19
but then he would do his, like, typical, like, so stereotypical rake stuff,
Francesca:
00:25:24
which, you know, okay, especially with Arabella and, like, that whole situation.
Francesca:
00:25:30
I was like, "Well, maybe you're taking it a little too far,
Francesca:
00:25:33
but, but I'll give you a pass.
Francesca:
00:25:36
Okay, I'll give you a
Francesca:
00:25:37
BECKY.: Yeah, we are giving him a because he is so, like, he's the naive
Francesca:
00:25:41
one, and he's from the past, and like what we, it's just what we do, and yeah
Francesca:
00:25:47
FRANCESCA : Yeah, he's like, "This is what I've always done, and I need
Francesca:
00:25:49
to get this done 'cause I gotta get back." And then, like, the whole
Francesca:
00:25:52
thing with his wife and how he brought that up, like, out of nowhere.
Francesca:
00:25:57
Like, "Oh yeah, by the way, I have a wife. And yeah, it's no big deal,
Francesca:
00:25:59
'cause like, we can be together." And like, how dismissive he was, which
Francesca:
00:26:03
obviously I understand going back to the 1500s, that's how life was for them.
Francesca:
00:26:09
Um, so, but he did pick up quickly on that context, like once it was
Francesca:
00:26:15
clearly explained to him that, no, uh, okay, no, you have a wife, so
Francesca:
00:26:20
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:26:20
FRANCESCA : none of that's gonna be
Francesca:
00:26:21
BECKY.: for love.
Francesca:
00:26:22
yeah, love is a thing in this world.
Francesca:
00:26:25
I'm like, "What?" Yeah
Francesca:
00:26:27
FRANCESCA : It's like, kind of like that dumb man
Francesca:
00:26:30
BECKY.: Yeah, totally.
Francesca:
00:26:30
Well, 'cause like, I mean, back then, like, it is insane.
Francesca:
00:26:34
Like, I feel-- I, I think there's some truth to that because, like, I feel like
Francesca:
00:26:36
looking at the history of marriage, they were more business agreements and, um,
Francesca:
00:26:41
like alliances between countries before it was two people who were in love
Francesca:
00:26:46
with each other who wanna be together.
Francesca:
00:26:47
Like that, I-- so for us looking at the past, we're like, "That's so crazy
Francesca:
00:26:51
they're marrying and, and they're not in love." And, and but for him
Francesca:
00:26:54
looking at it, he's like, "They're marrying, but she has no dowry?
Francesca:
00:26:56
I don't understand." You know, like
Francesca:
00:26:58
FRANCESCA : They're in love, who cares?
Francesca:
00:27:00
BECKY.: yeah.
Francesca:
00:27:01
FRANCESCA : What is this thing about feelings?
Francesca:
00:27:03
Feelings have nothing to do with a marriage.
Francesca:
00:27:05
BECKY.: is a business arrangement.
Francesca:
00:27:07
Yeah
Francesca:
00:27:08
FRANCESCA : Yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:27:08
So that was, I mean, I'll give him a pass for that.
Francesca:
00:27:11
Definitely there's a lot to, I think, that I gave him a pass for in this one also
Francesca:
00:27:16
because like, yeah, his character is naive and he's entertaining, but also he does
Francesca:
00:27:22
show like he's learning along the way.
Francesca:
00:27:24
So the character growth, I do think that is coming along with him, but also
Francesca:
00:27:30
is coming along with her, you know?
Francesca:
00:27:31
Because where, from where she starts out being like completely no confidence, this
Francesca:
00:27:37
and that, to like even to refer back to the scene of the drugging, but like to
Francesca:
00:27:42
her drugging someone to get information.
Francesca:
00:27:45
Like the fact that she even had the guts to do that or had the guts to ask her
Francesca:
00:27:50
sister to mail a fancy dress and that she would put herself out there, um, in
Francesca:
00:27:56
that way, like I wouldn't have seen her do that at the beginning of the book
Francesca:
00:28:01
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:28:01
Yeah, she would've just done whatever, like, Robert asked.
Francesca:
00:28:05
FRANCESCA : make, herself look small
Francesca:
00:28:07
BECKY.: Exactly.
Francesca:
00:28:08
Yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:28:08
But this, she's like fully asserting herself, and asserting herself
Francesca:
00:28:12
with her feelings, you know?
Francesca:
00:28:13
Like, I know that's like, again, is that sh- uh, the, is that a damsel in distress?
Francesca:
00:28:19
Who knows.
Francesca:
00:28:20
But I f- I found her assertive when she was like, when she's like,
Francesca:
00:28:24
being honest with someone that you love, um, like I, I don't know.
Francesca:
00:28:27
I was like, I find that brave.
Francesca:
00:28:29
So
Francesca:
00:28:29
FRANCESCA : yeah
Francesca:
00:28:30
For sure she gets to that point, and also even to tell him, "I don't
Francesca:
00:28:34
want you to go." You know, for her to even have the guts to say that,
Francesca:
00:28:38
like there was so much character growth for her to get to that point.
Francesca:
00:28:41
'Cause you understand what you're asking because there's so many stakes.
Francesca:
00:28:46
Like, he has to go back because of all, all these things.
Francesca:
00:28:50
So, like even understanding all of that, she was still able to say,
Francesca:
00:28:54
"I want you to stay here with me."
Francesca:
00:28:56
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:28:57
Uh, totally because like, again, she's- it's kind of what she wants kind
Francesca:
00:29:01
of erases the whole plot, you know?
Francesca:
00:29:03
And so it is a such a fun, it's a fun conflict, and to see her be,
Francesca:
00:29:08
you know, self-aware with- of that conflict, you know, admirable.
Francesca:
00:29:12
Yeah
Francesca:
00:29:13
FRANCESCA : Yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:29:14
And then, um, so also something that I wanted to ask you, and this
Francesca:
00:29:17
is obviously right at the end of the chapters 18, is the fact that
Francesca:
00:29:21
he finally does go back right after he decides that he's going to stay.
Francesca:
00:29:28
It, tragic, definitely tragic, but also in a way, to me, that's kind of like
Francesca:
00:29:34
why he was brought forth, is to find that connection and that love because
Francesca:
00:29:40
ultimately that's what she was asking for in a knight in shining armor.
Francesca:
00:29:44
Not somebody that would come and pay her bills and, give her a
Francesca:
00:29:47
roof and some ways to get around.
Francesca:
00:29:50
It was for that connection.
Francesca:
00:29:53
That, that's what she was looking for.
Francesca:
00:29:55
So that's what they had to achieve, and the moment they
Francesca:
00:29:57
achieved that, now he's gone
Francesca:
00:29:59
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:29:59
And it also is just like, you know, kind of speaks a lot to, like, the craft of
Francesca:
00:30:03
romance, of, like, how to, you know, get the reader invested and then really
Francesca:
00:30:09
just take a moment and what it means to make a reader feel a certain emotion,
Francesca:
00:30:14
especially in that point, you know, just, like, the worst possible time for the
Francesca:
00:30:19
worst possible thing to happen, and it just, like, it's kind of a good reminder
Francesca:
00:30:23
in terms of, like, craft, you know what I
Francesca:
00:30:25
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:30:25
Yeah, Yeah, especially 'cause when we talk about pace, I feel like this
Francesca:
00:30:30
book does such a good job with the pace in the sense that there's all
Francesca:
00:30:34
this novelty and discovery, and, like, the relationship is deepening.
Francesca:
00:30:37
Like, there, there was no Ohio moments, at least for me, in this
Francesca:
00:30:41
one, where it's like there's a lull.
Francesca:
00:30:43
And now just where you would think that the, the, the lull is coming, it's
Francesca:
00:30:46
like whack, get whacked over the head.
Francesca:
00:30:49
And you're like, no, now everything is different.
Francesca:
00:30:51
And then right after that, it's like, well, nobody ever saw him.
Francesca:
00:30:54
Like, what are you talking about?
Francesca:
00:30:55
You are just crazy.
Francesca:
00:30:56
BECKY.: Yeah, now it's like this like, um, psychological thriller of like, oh my God.
Francesca:
00:31:00
But y- I think like to that point, like there is a lot of like
Francesca:
00:31:04
different kind of tropes in here.
Francesca:
00:31:07
Like, you do have like the mystery element.
Francesca:
00:31:09
You do have, honestly, I will say there's a historical m- h- element.
Francesca:
00:31:13
I mean, we have-- I don't know what happens in the rest of the book, but
Francesca:
00:31:16
there is like, there's something like when you, when he, when they like ha-
Francesca:
00:31:20
you know, talk about his memories, you know, and, um, that it feels
Francesca:
00:31:24
very much like a his- historical, like Elizabethan fiction romance.
Francesca:
00:31:29
You have your scavenger hunt, and then you have your fish out of water,
Francesca:
00:31:32
and then you have the love, you know?
Francesca:
00:31:34
So it is a lot, there is a lot to like… There's a lot going on that, forces it to
Francesca:
00:31:40
not be boring, you know what I So yeah.
Francesca:
00:31:43
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:31:43
And I think from a romance book structure, I think also there's a lot
Francesca:
00:31:49
here that you see reflected also in modern romances, you know, whether it's
Francesca:
00:31:54
the actual, like, arc, which I, I think some people have gone away from more
Francesca:
00:31:58
of this kind of arc, but I like where you're getting that twist in the middle.
Francesca:
00:32:02
Like, I know people love to have that twist at the end where it's like, "Oh
Francesca:
00:32:05
my God, no way." But, like, when you get it in the middle, and then now you have
Francesca:
00:32:08
to, like, re-figure out the whole thing, it's so exciting, 'cause it's almost like
Francesca:
00:32:13
you're getting a whole different book
Francesca:
00:32:16
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:32:16
There's a level, there's like a, a, a, it's dense, you know?
Francesca:
00:32:19
I, I think, not that to say that other romances aren't dense if it is just kind
Francesca:
00:32:23
of like one kind of story arc, but, um, it is, it does kind of like lead to,
Francesca:
00:32:29
you know, kind of the types of stories that were more epic that came out maybe
Francesca:
00:32:36
in the '80s where you, like the plots were plotting, you know what mean?
Francesca:
00:32:41
Like the, you, you not only- Like, I'm just thinking of one other book that I
Francesca:
00:32:45
read that was like, I think billed as a romance, but not a romance, and you
Francesca:
00:32:49
were like, before you even got to the protagonist, they were talking about
Francesca:
00:32:52
their grandparents and great-grandparents and how their family landed in the
Francesca:
00:32:55
United States before the two love interests even met, and I'm like, "This
Francesca:
00:32:58
is like a saga," you know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:33:01
And
Francesca:
00:33:01
FRANCESCA : some ways this felt like a saga, 'cause you have so much of his
Francesca:
00:33:05
history and, like, what happened in his life in the 1500s, and the treason,
Francesca:
00:33:11
and the beheading, and, like, he's gotta go back and, like, clear his
Francesca:
00:33:14
family's legacy and all of these things.
Francesca:
00:33:17
And in some ways, like, I find it so interesting how, like, we talk about this
Francesca:
00:33:21
being such a dense and interesting story, but at the same time it's very simple.
Francesca:
00:33:27
Like, I think she was able to do that so well without complicating anything, which
Francesca:
00:33:33
I think that's the part that amazes me the most, is that it's such a simple story,
Francesca:
00:33:38
but at the same time there's so much to it
Francesca:
00:33:40
BECKY.: Totally, 'cause I think that she does a really good job of getting inside
Francesca:
00:33:44
the characters' heads, and, and like I'm fascinated by what Dougless thinks
Francesca:
00:33:51
when she's just like watching him sleep.
Francesca:
00:33:53
You know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:33:54
And it's like you really, y- I don't know.
Francesca:
00:33:56
I think the characters, this is, out of all the books we've read, I feel like the,
Francesca:
00:34:00
these are my favorite characters for sure
Francesca:
00:34:02
FRANCESCA : Yeah, you're getting plenty of depth with the characters.
Francesca:
00:34:05
And even, like I would say up to this point, like yes, the
Francesca:
00:34:09
romance development is there.
Francesca:
00:34:11
Like, it's not super like what we're used to now and like very, very heavy
Francesca:
00:34:17
feelings and lots of connection moments, but it's like those small moments of
Francesca:
00:34:21
connection that have gotten us to this point, which I kind of like because I…
Francesca:
00:34:27
Like, we're always so used to the grand gestures and the big moments,
Francesca:
00:34:31
and this book doesn't have any of that.
Francesca:
00:34:34
BECKY.: Yeah, totally.
Francesca:
00:34:34
And
Francesca:
00:34:34
FRANCESCA : It relies on those li- little moments
Francesca:
00:34:37
BECKY.: Absolutely.
Francesca:
00:34:38
And even now, like I, I think like when I speak with other romance
Francesca:
00:34:41
readers, you know, seeing how like, well, we're 25% in and the first
Francesca:
00:34:45
kiss hasn't happened yet, you know.
Francesca:
00:34:47
To read something and not have that thought in the back of my
Francesca:
00:34:51
mind of like, oh, is the right plot point coming at the right moment?
Francesca:
00:34:55
You're just there for the ride, you know.
Francesca:
00:34:57
It kind of reminds you like why it's so fun to begin with, you know?
Francesca:
00:35:00
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:35:00
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:35:01
'Cause I didn't think once about the fact that, oh, well, they haven't kissed yet,
Francesca:
00:35:06
or, you know, they haven't X, Y, Z yet.
Francesca:
00:35:09
I was just along for the ride.
Francesca:
00:35:10
I was just enjoying whatever moments they're going through, w- the moments
Francesca:
00:35:14
of jealousy that you're getting from him, moments of jealousy you're
Francesca:
00:35:17
getting from her, and it's such a small thing, but it kept me fed enough that
Francesca:
00:35:23
I didn't feel anything was missing
Francesca:
00:35:26
BECKY.: And you're also kind of like wondering like so many other things
Francesca:
00:35:29
as well, like who, who betrayed his family, and then also what are
Francesca:
00:35:33
the r- how did he get here still?
Francesca:
00:35:35
You know, like, I know with like something like Outlander, like you know that there's
Francesca:
00:35:39
like no kind of concrete answer, but like your brain is still gonna go there.
Francesca:
00:35:46
And so your brain is like kind of like going here of like, not necessarily
Francesca:
00:35:49
how did he travel forth in time, but why did he travel forth in time?
Francesca:
00:35:52
And, and so you're still, like you're kind of… It really does like capture your
Francesca:
00:35:57
attention in that way of like not only the romance, but like the story part of it
Francesca:
00:36:01
FRANCESCA : Mm-hmm, and also, um, in, with all the time travel romance that
Francesca:
00:36:05
I've read, I've never gotten to see this, but not only did he travel forward in
Francesca:
00:36:10
time, but he's got like this connection with her where she can just like wish
Francesca:
00:36:16
something and he can hear it or feel it, and he knows that he needs to go find her.
Francesca:
00:36:21
Like, I loved that aspect of it, and I had completely forgot.
Francesca:
00:36:25
Like it's, oh sure, it's time travel, but I've never read
Francesca:
00:36:28
a time travel that does that
Francesca:
00:36:30
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:36:30
It's almost like, um, like again, you know, recently I'm reading stuff with
Francesca:
00:36:35
like when there's like fated mates or watching like kind of a micro drama with
Francesca:
00:36:39
like wolves and bonding and, you know, like that kind of thing, and just like,
Francesca:
00:36:45
oh, seeing that, that that's still in there and like, but not ha- not needing
Francesca:
00:36:49
to like put a hat on it, you know what
Francesca:
00:36:51
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:36:51
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:36:53
BECKY.: Um, yeah
Francesca:
00:36:55
FRANCESCA : Yeah, 'cause in some ways it did, it did feel like it is a fated
Francesca:
00:36:58
mates trope, um, because they're soulmates
Francesca:
00:37:02
BECKY.: soulmates.
Francesca:
00:37:02
And it kind of is like, okay, well what sh- obviously, like, don't spoil it,
Francesca:
00:37:05
but like, she's obviously serves some important kind of role in this world for
Francesca:
00:37:09
hi- for her to be able to summon him.
Francesca:
00:37:12
You know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:37:13
So it is like, okay, well what, w- who, like, who is she that
Francesca:
00:37:17
she d- doesn't realize yet?
Francesca:
00:37:19
And, you
Francesca:
00:37:20
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:37:21
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:37:21
So I think it's gonna be a fun exploration to see, um, as we get into the second
Francesca:
00:37:28
half, and now there's gonna be more answers, some less answers, and I will
Francesca:
00:37:34
say kind of a controversial ending.
Francesca:
00:37:36
So, um, I'm really looking forward to seeing what you think.
Francesca:
00:37:41
BECKY.: I will say, like, I'm, I am looking forward to it.
Francesca:
00:37:44
Obviously, I need to know how it ends, but, like, I don't know about you, but,
Francesca:
00:37:47
like, I, like, sometimes get, like, very too empathetic for, like, fictional
Francesca:
00:37:52
characters, and I just remember, like, not that this is the same thing, but,
Francesca:
00:37:57
like, when Angel and Buffy in season two, like, and Angel-- or i- in the
Francesca:
00:38:03
beginning of season three, when they were apart, like, I had full-on depression.
Francesca:
00:38:09
Like, when Jim and Pam weren't together on The Office, or it's just like they would
Francesca:
00:38:13
get so close and they would get apart, I, like, full-on was like, th- it was the
Francesca:
00:38:18
most stressful, emotional year of my life.
Francesca:
00:38:22
You know, and so, like, that's why I love a book, 'cause you could finish it, and
Francesca:
00:38:26
you to, like, sit in the despair much.
Francesca:
00:38:28
And so I'm like, like right now, I'm like in despair.
Francesca:
00:38:32
FRANCESCA : It's like I need to know.
Francesca:
00:38:35
BECKY.: like, "They're apart
Francesca:
00:38:36
FRANCESCA : good thing is we can go back into it immediately after we get
Francesca:
00:38:39
off here and like, okay, finish it.
Francesca:
00:38:41
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:38:41
Yeah, 'cause like honestly, I think I am gonna have to do that
Francesca:
00:38:44
just for like my mental health.
Francesca:
00:38:45
And this just goes show you like how much I should like n- need mental
Francesca:
00:38:50
health because I'm just like, "Well, for my mental health, I'm just gonna
Francesca:
00:38:52
sit still and listen to this." But like she's at the point where like it, is a,
Francesca:
00:38:57
it's a total nightmare as any type of normal human being where you lost
Francesca:
00:39:02
the person you love, not only that, but everyone thinks you're crazy.
Francesca:
00:39:05
and so like that to me is like out of all of the situations like, uh, you can be in
Francesca:
00:39:11
FRANCESCA : It's, it, the, it, it's at the worst possible point in
Francesca:
00:39:16
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:39:17
someone who, like, has experienced both those things, I feel like
Francesca:
00:39:21
I'm just like, I'm feeling this is like, this is touching a tender
Francesca:
00:39:24
part of my soul, and I need to work
Francesca:
00:39:27
FRANCESCA : We need to fix that immediately.
Francesca:
00:39:29
BECKY.: Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:39:30
FRANCESCA : Yeah, so, uh, I am definitely excited.
Francesca:
00:39:32
I'm definitely gonna be excited to hear what people think as well,
Francesca:
00:39:37
um, and how, you know, how it plays out in the end for everybody.
Francesca:
00:39:40
But yeah, I really love the fact that we're able to read something
Francesca:
00:39:43
that was a little bit lighter
Francesca:
00:39:45
BECKY.: Yes.
Francesca:
00:39:46
Mm-hmm
Francesca:
00:39:47
FRANCESCA : 'cause I feel like we needed a little lightness because when we
Francesca:
00:39:50
think of bodice rippers, we're always thinking of the forced seduction,
Francesca:
00:39:55
the heavy topics, the fact that the heroes are awful and irredeemable.
Francesca:
00:40:02
And just from what I remember about this book, I'm like, well, there
Francesca:
00:40:07
is still something to, to read from those times that, in all honesty, I
Francesca:
00:40:11
feel like it stand the time today.
Francesca:
00:40:14
You know?
Francesca:
00:40:14
Like, you could give this to any reader today and, you know, besides the fact
Francesca:
00:40:19
that, yes, they can tell that it's written in the '80s, but, like, they
Francesca:
00:40:23
would just read this and enjoy this
Francesca:
00:40:25
BECKY.: Yeah, there's nothing that's like, kind of like, oh, you're w-
Francesca:
00:40:28
with reading… gonna-- Yeah, like, there's nothing that's like, okay,
Francesca:
00:40:32
this is w- you know, like you're reading something f- just solely
Francesca:
00:40:36
out of historical context, you know?
Francesca:
00:40:38
Like, this is something you can read and be, like, yes, you can look at
Francesca:
00:40:42
the history of it 'cause it came out in '88 or something, but you can
Francesca:
00:40:45
also just read it to be entertained,
Francesca:
00:40:47
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:40:48
BECKY.: And,
Francesca:
00:40:48
FRANCESCA : yeah.
Francesca:
00:40:48
Totally
Francesca:
00:40:49
BECKY.: I feel like there's something about-- I, there's, um,
Francesca:
00:40:52
this, like, th- there's a lot of these, like, time travel romances.
Francesca:
00:40:56
Like, there's the Chris- there's this Christopher Reeve movie
Francesca:
00:40:59
called In Time or something that, like, has this cult following.
Francesca:
00:41:03
It came out in the '80s.
Francesca:
00:41:04
It didn't do well, but everyone-- I've been talking to multiple people who that
Francesca:
00:41:08
movie has such, like, that time travel romance movie has such a, like, secure
Francesca:
00:41:13
place in people's hearts, and I'm, like, curious if this book, there's something
Francesca:
00:41:17
like that too of like, this is like, yeah, it's a product of its time, but at
Francesca:
00:41:21
the same time, it's also timeless, and it just, like, the story itself just,
Francesca:
00:41:26
like, ho- it some, it, it, people are holding it in their heart, you know?
Francesca:
00:41:30
and it just means something to them.
Francesca:
00:41:32
FRANCESCA : I definitely think that that is kind of a thing with this book because
Francesca:
00:41:35
any time I've ever talked about this book, there's always people that are like, "Oh
Francesca:
00:41:39
my God, that book, like it meant so much to me," but I also find it so interesting
Francesca:
00:41:43
that, yes, there's so many time travel stories that people connect with a lot,
Francesca:
00:41:48
and I think that's also seeing like the juxtaposition of two completely different
Francesca:
00:41:54
people and times and all of these things, and like how those work together.
Francesca:
00:41:59
I do think that people connect with that.
Francesca:
00:42:01
But also, in general, they're never the most popular things.
Francesca:
00:42:05
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:42:06
FRANCESCA : They never are.
Francesca:
00:42:07
Like, I am still devastated that they canceled the TV show Timeless
Francesca:
00:42:11
after like two seasons or three or whatever it was, and I'm like, why?
Francesca:
00:42:15
I mean, I would say probably the only one that has stuck around is Outlander.
Francesca:
00:42:21
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:42:21
but you're absolutely right.
Francesca:
00:42:22
Like, I do think that there is-- Like, I'm so curious, like, what your listeners
Francesca:
00:42:26
are gonna think of, like, okay, like there is a population of people who just,
Francesca:
00:42:30
like, live for time travel love stories.
Francesca:
00:42:32
I that, like, that's a thing.
Francesca:
00:42:34
Like, you know how, like, there's people who love, like, their dark romance and
Francesca:
00:42:37
their bully romance and their monster romance, and we really-- Like, there's
Francesca:
00:42:40
our time travel romance readers.
Francesca:
00:42:42
FRANCESCA : Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:42:42
Yes, we're not being fed, people.
Francesca:
00:42:44
We're not being fed.
Francesca:
00:42:45
BECKY.: really need more.
Francesca:
00:42:46
And the thing is, is that like whenever-- like I-- we-- on my show,
Francesca:
00:42:50
I usually ask like guests, especially if they've never read romance before,
Francesca:
00:42:54
like is there a subgenre or trope that like you've heard about that you're
Francesca:
00:42:57
interested in that, um, you know, that you're, that you're curious in reading?
Francesca:
00:43:02
And a lot of them-- like lately, people who don't usually read romance will
Francesca:
00:43:06
bring up, "Is there time travel ones?" And then I'll just like go down this
Francesca:
00:43:09
literal rabbit hole of, um, these, all of these different time travel
Francesca:
00:43:13
romances that are so fascinating, but like I guess for some reason my
Francesca:
00:43:17
algorithm isn't showing me as much.
Francesca:
00:43:20
Um, and it's like, oh, I think there's a lot more time travel romance
Francesca:
00:43:24
FRANCESCA : There's quite a few,
Francesca:
00:43:25
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:43:26
Yeah
Francesca:
00:43:26
FRANCESCA : there's definitely quite a few.
Francesca:
00:43:27
There's some that are rom-com-y.
Francesca:
00:43:29
There's some that are, like, darker ones.
Francesca:
00:43:31
Um, and also, like, for a newer release, there's Bryn Donovan.
Francesca:
00:43:35
I don't know if you've
Francesca:
00:43:36
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:43:36
FRANCESCA : her books, but I… When the first book came out, which was
Francesca:
00:43:40
A Night at the Museum, I think, uh, it reminded me of this book so much
Francesca:
00:43:44
because, like, you're getting that same curiosity and wonder of this knight
Francesca:
00:43:50
discovering, like, you know, that he ends up working at, um, like, a medieval
Francesca:
00:43:55
dinner show or something, and he's like, "Well, I, I can do that 'cause I can,
Francesca:
00:43:59
like, wear my armor and make some money 'cause I have to provide for my woman."
Francesca:
00:44:03
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:44:03
FRANCESCA : that's what we do." And, like, it was so funny in a way because
Francesca:
00:44:07
it reminded me of that, but we need more.
Francesca:
00:44:10
We definitely need more
Francesca:
00:44:11
BECKY.: Yeah, I'm so curious if it's gonna be, like, the next big thing.
Francesca:
00:44:14
'Cause, like, I've noticed on, like, um… I listened to, like, not that
Francesca:
00:44:19
I'm supporting this, but, like, you know, a lot of, like, the Audible
Francesca:
00:44:22
originals, I think, I wanna say, like, last year, there were a lot of, like,
Francesca:
00:44:25
rom-com Audible originals that included either a time loop element or a time
Francesca:
00:44:30
loop travel segment, and these are rom-coms written solely for Audible.
Francesca:
00:44:35
They're not… S- structurally, it's done as, like, an audio kind of series
Francesca:
00:44:40
those were very time travel-based, so I'm, like, so curious if that's gonna be,
Francesca:
00:44:43
like, the new, um, romantasy in a way of,
Francesca:
00:44:47
FRANCESCA : Ooh, that would
Francesca:
00:44:47
BECKY.: who
Francesca:
00:44:48
FRANCESCA : That would be fun.
Francesca:
00:44:49
Yes.
Francesca:
00:44:50
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:44:51
Mm. Especially like, well, maybe it can be time travel or portal,
Francesca:
00:44:54
like port- kind of portal fantasy, like time traveling into like a
Francesca:
00:44:58
different dimension and different time
Francesca:
00:45:01
BECKY.: Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:45:01
Yeah,
Francesca:
00:45:01
FRANCESCA : would be fun
Francesca:
00:45:02
BECKY.: yeah, like a Sliding Doors style, like what happened?
Francesca:
00:45:05
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:45:06
FRANCESCA : Yeah, that would be fun.
Francesca:
00:45:07
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:45:08
So, we'll see.
Francesca:
00:45:09
So be sure to, um, let us know if you are a time travel romance reader.
Francesca:
00:45:14
I definitely am.
Francesca:
00:45:16
I am always looking for more.
Francesca:
00:45:18
I try to read them when I can, but yes, we, we have slim pickings.
Francesca:
00:45:21
We have more than you would think, but we have slim pickings
Francesca:
00:45:25
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:45:25
I think it's just almost like it-- for me these days, it's like hard
Francesca:
00:45:29
for me not to see-- Like, I'm looking at Booktok, which I know is not the
Francesca:
00:45:33
place to go to see what's popular these days because, like, whatever.
Francesca:
00:45:37
But it-- and sometimes I do get like, well, everyone's into, like, having sex
Francesca:
00:45:41
with dragons these days because Booktok, and then I have to, like, remind myself,
Francesca:
00:45:44
like, there are so many other readers who aren't documenting every moment
Francesca:
00:45:49
of their day and what reading, you
Francesca:
00:45:51
FRANCESCA : Yes.
Francesca:
00:45:51
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:45:52
The only, the only sad part of that is that, yes, there are other readers that
Francesca:
00:45:57
read other things, but sadly, because of the popularity of Booktok, that
Francesca:
00:46:02
is what dictates what authors write.
Francesca:
00:46:06
Because at the end of the day, you need to make money, which I get.
Francesca:
00:46:09
You
Francesca:
00:46:09
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:46:10
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:46:11
FRANCESCA : I totally get.
Francesca:
00:46:11
So it does dictate that.
Francesca:
00:46:14
I, yeah, it's hard because I can imagine if there's an author that has this
Francesca:
00:46:19
wonderful idea for a story, but it's so unconventional that they don't know how
Francesca:
00:46:24
they would market it, and if there's no space for them to market it, one, like
Francesca:
00:46:28
the publishers are not gonna buy it.
Francesca:
00:46:30
So you would have to take on indie, and then if you do take on indie,
Francesca:
00:46:35
how are you gonna promote it if you don't have like a slot that, you know,
Francesca:
00:46:39
you can just like have your comps?
Francesca:
00:46:41
'Cause it's all about the tropes right now and the comps.
Francesca:
00:46:43
Like, oh, if you like this, then, you know, read that.
Francesca:
00:46:47
But I mean, just give me more if you like a du- a, a knight
Francesca:
00:46:51
in shining armor, I'll read it.
Francesca:
00:46:54
BECKY.: Yeah, it's so interesting, like, how much, like, I, I'm
Francesca:
00:46:58
finding myself influenced.
Francesca:
00:46:59
Like, if I'm looking at, like, the, you know, kind of a description of a
Francesca:
00:47:03
book, and I'm finding myself saying, "Oh, it says it was a TikTok sensation.
Francesca:
00:47:08
That's huge." What-- it makes me more intrigued, and I know that I need to
Francesca:
00:47:14
remind myself that TikTok isn't, like, the barometer of what, particularly for
Francesca:
00:47:17
me, of what is gonna, um, intrigue me.
Francesca:
00:47:21
Um, so yeah.
Francesca:
00:47:23
FRANCESCA : Funny enough, I've always, this is not just from Booktok days,
Francesca:
00:47:27
but I've always been the opposite.
Francesca:
00:47:29
The moment something becomes like really, really popular, so if it's like
Francesca:
00:47:32
a Booktok sensation or an author that like gets really, really big, immediately
Francesca:
00:47:38
I'm like, "Let me go find something
Francesca:
00:47:40
BECKY.: Yeah, and I think that's smart.
Francesca:
00:47:41
FRANCESCA : I'm the opposite way.
Francesca:
00:47:43
Like as soon as they hit… There's a few that I think are still ones that I would
Francesca:
00:47:49
continue, especially if I was reading them before, so then I have some experience.
Francesca:
00:47:53
But if it's a new author and like, you know, the, or a new series that
Francesca:
00:47:57
I never got into the series, and now it's like, well, I'm not gonna start.
Francesca:
00:48:03
BECKY.: Yeah
Francesca:
00:48:04
FRANCESCA : I'm not gonna start.
Francesca:
00:48:04
I'm gonna go find that obscure thing that sounds a little weird and sounds
Francesca:
00:48:10
like, you know, they're meshing two different genres or, you know.
Francesca:
00:48:15
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:48:15
'Cause like, I-- it's interesting 'cause, like, I think you were
Francesca:
00:48:18
talking earlier about, like, writers writing to market in order to get,
Francesca:
00:48:22
um, their people buying their books.
Francesca:
00:48:26
You and I are book podcasters.
Francesca:
00:48:29
Me personally, like lately, like I've been wanting to grow
Francesca:
00:48:32
my audience and get listeners.
Francesca:
00:48:34
So when we
Francesca:
00:48:35
FRANCESCA : Everybody go follow Becky, Too Stupid To Live podcast, please.
Francesca:
00:48:38
It is amazing,
Francesca:
00:48:39
BECKY.: Thank you so much.
Francesca:
00:48:41
FRANCESCA : Romance books $5 and under.
Francesca:
00:48:43
BECKY.: please everyone, um, this is just a promo.
Francesca:
00:48:45
But I will say for, um, book podcasters, I think we're also looking for TikTok
Francesca:
00:48:51
books because people are searching for reviews of certain books in podcast
Francesca:
00:48:55
apps, and so you, they, we, and we want them to come to our show, you know?
Francesca:
00:49:00
regardless of whether we like the book or not, you know.
Francesca:
00:49:03
So it's like, oh, okay, now I'm finding myself kind of gravitating
Francesca:
00:49:07
towards, certain tropes or, or things that, like, that people
Francesca:
00:49:11
are gonna search for, you know.
Francesca:
00:49:13
It is kind of-- it does, it does dictate, I think, a lot more than, than just, like,
Francesca:
00:49:19
an author and the books they're reading.
Francesca:
00:49:20
But it's like a lot of people rely on this kind of stuff, whether it's,
Francesca:
00:49:24
like, people who work in bookstores or booksellers, people who work in
Francesca:
00:49:27
publishing and-- or agents, you know.
Francesca:
00:49:29
Like, everyone is, like, kind of beholden to TikTok sometimes.
Francesca:
00:49:34
FRANCESCA : It is.
Francesca:
00:49:35
It is right now.
Francesca:
00:49:36
Like even, um, I remember seeing a couple of authors talking about like, you know
Francesca:
00:49:40
how they do those reports, uh, the agents that they're like, "What, what are people
Francesca:
00:49:44
looking for? What are the publishers looking for? What's popular?" And I
Francesca:
00:49:49
remember seeing a, a thread I think it was, from Silvia Moreno-Garcia, huge,
Francesca:
00:49:55
huge fantasy horror author, like big name.
Francesca:
00:49:58
And she was just saying like, "Well, you know, all they're looking for is
Francesca:
00:50:02
romantasy, and that's not what I write." And all of a sudden I'm like, can you
Francesca:
00:50:06
imagine being such a big name, and you're here sitting with a wonderful
Francesca:
00:50:11
maybe idea or a wonderful story and like there's no space for you to publish that?
Francesca:
00:50:17
Like that I think is so crazy because that's how you
Francesca:
00:50:22
used to get those big books.
Francesca:
00:50:24
You know, like when something does break out and something does get
Francesca:
00:50:28
very popular, it's not because they were following a formula, it's
Francesca:
00:50:31
because they were the trendsetter.
Francesca:
00:50:33
So if you're not publishing those books
Francesca:
00:50:35
BECKY.: It's so hard 'cause like, it's like, and now I'm like on this
Francesca:
00:50:40
existential like what am I doing with my life, but like we're raised to like
Francesca:
00:50:44
be true to ourselves and, you know, don't be afraid of our own voice and
Francesca:
00:50:47
believe in ourselves, and then they're like, but actually the only thing we
Francesca:
00:50:51
want to read is like two hockey players.
Francesca:
00:50:54
You know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:50:54
And like, and, and so like, it's like, well, what do, what,
Francesca:
00:50:58
what are we supposed to do?
Francesca:
00:50:59
Like we, we were told to always be ourselves, but now no one
Francesca:
00:51:02
wants us to be ourselves.
Francesca:
00:51:05
FRANCESCA : We need to fit the mold.
Francesca:
00:51:07
BECKY.: Yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:51:08
And it's like, what are we doing?
Francesca:
00:51:09
And it also kind of like leads back to Dougless'' kind of, um, plot line a
Francesca:
00:51:14
little, or character development a little bit because like one thing I noticed in
Francesca:
00:51:18
the book is like she's so concerned with, with makeup and how she looks that like
Francesca:
00:51:24
when she loses her luggage and she's like, "I need to go to the store," her
Francesca:
00:51:27
first thought isn't, I need underwear.
Francesca:
00:51:30
Her thought is, I need mascara.
Francesca:
00:51:32
You know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:51:33
And I'm just like, whether or not like that is kind of a, maybe a
Francesca:
00:51:37
hurtful or whatever, kind of like a stereotypical women be shopping kind of
Francesca:
00:51:41
thing, it made me hurt for her heart.
Francesca:
00:51:44
My heart hurt for her, you know?
Francesca:
00:51:46
And like, because again, like you're molding yourself for some- for,
Francesca:
00:51:49
for someone else and, um, yeah.
Francesca:
00:51:53
And are, are we still doing that but in different ways?
Francesca:
00:51:56
FRANCESCA : We do that in, yeah, I think in so many ways.
Francesca:
00:51:58
And even you see it again when she does get that dress from her sister, which
Francesca:
00:52:02
was I think her mom's dress, and then she's wearing it and her comparing
Francesca:
00:52:06
herself to Arabella, and like all, like that whole scene, it's also about
Francesca:
00:52:12
expectations, and I never would've because I didn't think that I could.
Francesca:
00:52:17
So it, yes, she, there was growth in the sense that she felt she could, but also
Francesca:
00:52:23
it is molding to the standards and the
Francesca:
00:52:28
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:52:29
She is--
Francesca:
00:52:30
FRANCESCA : to just her being comfortable however she was looking before.
Francesca:
00:52:32
You know what I
Francesca:
00:52:33
BECKY.: Exactly, 'cause there is, she does do, like, a lot that, like, granted,
Francesca:
00:52:38
all of us get into those moments at times depending on how we feel about ourselves.
Francesca:
00:52:42
It's not con- W- we can't constantly feel good about ourselves 100% of the time.
Francesca:
00:52:46
That's just not real.
Francesca:
00:52:47
But like, you know, just like seeing her, like, with the jeans and, and,
Francesca:
00:52:52
you know, making her jeans tighter so he notices her ass, and it's like
Francesca:
00:52:55
just seeing her do all those things.
Francesca:
00:52:56
Even though, like, at this point, he's in love with her.
Francesca:
00:52:58
Like, and just doesn't know it yet, but she feels like she has to do all of these
Francesca:
00:53:03
different things to, like, win over the man she's already won over, just even when
Francesca:
00:53:08
she was at her worst in the rain you know?
Francesca:
00:53:11
FRANCESCA : Yeah, yeah, yeah
Francesca:
00:53:12
BECKY.: um, i- it's just like you're kind of like, "Oh, no," you know.
Francesca:
00:53:15
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:53:16
Yeah, totally.
Francesca:
00:53:17
I, I felt that sa- like that scene with the jeans, I was like,
Francesca:
00:53:19
"What are you doing? What are you doing? What are we doing here?"
Francesca:
00:53:22
BECKY.: I mean, as some-- as like us, we've survived the pandemic
Francesca:
00:53:26
and like wearing comfortable pants has this new norm.
Francesca:
00:53:28
Like just like it feels like, oh my God, this is like the dentist.
Francesca:
00:53:33
FRANCESCA : Yes.
Francesca:
00:53:33
And, and not wearing makeup, 'cause I think, like, the pandemic was the
Francesca:
00:53:36
moment for me where I was like, "Well, I guess I'm, I'm not wearing makeup
Francesca:
00:53:40
anymore." Like, I'll wear it when I feel like, and which is not all that often
Francesca:
00:53:45
BECKY.: Right.
Francesca:
00:53:45
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:53:46
There's-- It's yeah
Francesca:
00:53:47
FRANCESCA : face just feels nice without it
Francesca:
00:53:50
BECKY.: Or just like I, I'm the same way with like jeans.
Francesca:
00:53:52
Like I'm-- If I'm wearing jeans, I'm, it, it's like I'm going on
Francesca:
00:53:57
like the Oregon Trail of 2026.
Francesca:
00:53:59
I am going on a trek.
Francesca:
00:54:00
I'm gonna be out all day.
Francesca:
00:54:03
FRANCESCA : There's a reason, and they need to be comfortable jeans
Francesca:
00:54:07
BECKY.: No more of those tight jeans.
Francesca:
00:54:09
Yeah.
Francesca:
00:54:10
Like it's just, yeah.
Francesca:
00:54:11
Like,
Francesca:
00:54:11
FRANCESCA : have disappeared.
Francesca:
00:54:12
We don't need them.
Francesca:
00:54:13
Mm-mm.
Francesca:
00:54:14
BECKY.: Agreed
Francesca:
00:54:15
FRANCESCA : And like, when they go shopping and she goes in to like,
Francesca:
00:54:18
get herself some clothes, 'cause first she wasn't gonna do that and
Francesca:
00:54:21
then, um, Nicholas says, "Well, I mean, you, you s- you can't go
Francesca:
00:54:25
around with me looking like that."
Francesca:
00:54:27
And she's like, "Oh, okay." And then she comes out and like, they
Francesca:
00:54:30
describe her outfit, and she was like, you know, feeling herself.
Francesca:
00:54:35
And yeah, I do think that there was a lot of how she presents herself
Francesca:
00:54:41
that dictates her self-worth in some
Francesca:
00:54:44
BECKY.: Totally.
Francesca:
00:54:45
And this isn't to say that, like, a great outfit can't make you feel
Francesca:
00:54:48
g- like, I w- know, like, love wearing cute things and, you know,
Francesca:
00:54:52
I'll, like, doing makeup, whatever.
Francesca:
00:54:55
But, like, the fact that, like, she has this thing, which I will also
Francesca:
00:54:59
admit in my past I've had this too, of like, things won't, like, my life won't
Francesca:
00:55:04
work out if I don't wear this dress.
Francesca:
00:55:07
Because I need to wear this dress to get him to get this, or like, I need to wear
Francesca:
00:55:11
this to feel this way in order to get him because he won't like me if I'm that way.
Francesca:
00:55:15
You know, like, it's like basing so much on a product versus, "Oh, I'm just
Francesca:
00:55:20
gonna wear this and have fun." You know
Francesca:
00:55:22
FRANCESCA : Yeah.
Francesca:
00:55:22
Which, I mean, it goes back to the consumerism.
Francesca:
00:55:26
So,
Francesca:
00:55:27
BECKY.: And 80s was very consumer, like was all that.
Francesca:
00:55:31
Yeah
Francesca:
00:55:32
FRANCESCA : yeah.
Francesca:
00:55:32
yeah.
Francesca:
00:55:32
Which, I mean, maybe that's exactly why we are seeing that reflected,
Francesca:
00:55:37
um, in that time, which maybe you don't see it as much nowadays
Francesca:
00:55:41
BECKY.: Oh, 100%.
Francesca:
00:55:43
Like, that's why I think maybe her character is so striking to us because
Francesca:
00:55:47
not that self-confidence didn't exist for women before 1980s, but there was
Francesca:
00:55:52
like, we didn't have like, '80s were all about excess and all about consumerism
Francesca:
00:55:57
and just like buying, buying, buying.
Francesca:
00:56:00
And it really took like a whole decade, and still, and then some,
Francesca:
00:56:05
for capitalism to be like, "Oh, let's market ourselves off of like
Francesca:
00:56:08
natural beauty," and like saying, "You're beautiful just as yourself,"
Francesca:
00:56:11
and putting those kinds of messages out there, still to sell a product.
Francesca:
00:56:15
That said,
Francesca:
00:56:15
FRANCESCA : They're still selling the product that's make you,
Francesca:
00:56:17
that's gonna make you look natural
Francesca:
00:56:19
BECKY.: Exactly, yeah.
Francesca:
00:56:20
But it is kind of like starting to get reflected in I don't know,
Francesca:
00:56:24
our, what our therapists are telling us these days, you know?
Francesca:
00:56:27
And so like, like what we're su- how we're supposed to feel and, and, and
Francesca:
00:56:32
maybe it is like, yeah, there is something nice to, you know, feeling yourself
Francesca:
00:56:36
and enjoying your natural beauty.
Francesca:
00:56:38
But like, let's just remember it has nothing to do with a product.
Francesca:
00:56:42
FRANCESCA : Exactly.
Francesca:
00:56:42
Yes, so that's the message for today, ladies.
Francesca:
00:56:45
BECKY.: Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:56:47
FRANCESCA : Take that, take that to heart.
Francesca:
00:56:48
BECKY.: Yes.
Francesca:
00:56:49
Yes
Francesca:
00:56:50
FRANCESCA : well, I had fun with this first half.
Francesca:
00:56:52
I hope you did too.
Francesca:
00:56:54
BECKY.: I'm scared for the second half 'cause I feel like you've been it seem
Francesca:
00:56:57
like, oh, it's gonna get dark, and I'm like, oh my God, what's gonna happen?
Francesca:
00:57:00
FRANCESCA : I mean in comparison, in comparison.
Francesca:
00:57:03
BECKY.: Th- um, that's making it even worse, I am scared.
Francesca:
00:57:07
I'm scared for what's gonna happen
Francesca:
00:57:08
FRANCESCA : No, don't be scared.
Francesca:
00:57:09
Don't be scared.
Francesca:
00:57:10
I mean, it's still, it's still a happy
Francesca:
00:57:12
BECKY.: It's still happily ever after.
Francesca:
00:57:14
Yes.
Francesca:
00:57:14
Good.
Francesca:
00:57:14
G-
Francesca:
00:57:14
FRANCESCA : it's a happy ending.
Francesca:
00:57:17
I'm not gonna say happily ever after.
Francesca:
00:57:19
It's happy ending.
Francesca:
00:57:20
BECKY.: I'll take a happy I mean, I won't take won't take happy ending?
Francesca:
00:57:25
But I just, like, don't want, like, like, oh my God, this ins- like,
Francesca:
00:57:29
wouldn't it, like, wouldn't it be sa- insane if, like, this book was marketed
Francesca:
00:57:33
as a romance, but all of a sudden th- from this half on, it was like, "Just
Francesca:
00:57:37
kidding, she was in a mental hospital this whole time," and, like, actually
Francesca:
00:57:41
isn't it's book about 1980s, like, psychological maneuvers, you know?
Francesca:
00:57:48
It becomes like One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, and it's like, oh, God.
Francesca:
00:57:53
FRANCESCA : bad, so it's not that dark.
Francesca:
00:57:55
BECKY.: As as it's not that.
Francesca:
00:57:56
Okay.
Francesca:
00:57:57
Yeah,
Francesca:
00:57:57
yeah.
Francesca:
00:57:58
'Cause believe me, like, where we stopped and, like, how I had to just sit there
Francesca:
00:58:02
with my thoughts, my brain went there.
Francesca:
00:58:06
FRANCESCA : They do make it seem a little bit like that, 'cause like the scene where
Francesca:
00:58:10
the vicar is like, "No, you almost got run over by the bus," and I'm like, "Ooh.
Francesca:
00:58:17
BECKY.: That's like the end
Francesca:
00:58:17
FRANCESCA : What do you mean?"
Francesca:
00:58:18
BECKY.: you know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:58:19
Like, that's like absolutely insane.
Francesca:
00:58:21
I think it's like that kind of stuff too where, oh my God, not only like she didn't
Francesca:
00:58:25
even dream it, but she was just like walking around talk- Like, that's like,
Francesca:
00:58:29
FRANCESCA : Talking to herself?
Francesca:
00:58:30
BECKY.: that's like kind of like s- someone who lives in my head all the time.
Francesca:
00:58:33
Like, what a nightmare, you know what I mean?
Francesca:
00:58:35
Of just like realizing your best friend is s- of your imagination and you've been…
Francesca:
00:58:40
FRANCESCA : It was just here
Francesca:
00:58:41
BECKY.: Yeah.
Francesca:
00:58:42
And like, and the thing is, is that like you all just let me talk
Francesca:
00:58:46
FRANCESCA : Nobody stopped me?
Francesca:
00:58:47
BECKY.: person.
Francesca:
00:58:48
Like, and no one's, no one… You're all, it's, it's been a week and
Francesca:
00:58:51
you're now offering to get me help.
Francesca:
00:58:53
Like,
Francesca:
00:58:56
what, where, well, I'm s- glad my mental illness entertained you.
Francesca:
00:59:00
Like,
Francesca:
00:59:00
FRANCESCA : Yeah, I know, right?
Francesca:
00:59:01
Yeah, like, and I was just looking at you, like sitting here talking to
Francesca:
00:59:04
yourself and talking by the, the tomb of this knight from the 15th century.
Francesca:
00:59:10
Like, that seems fishy.
Francesca:
00:59:13
You should've said something before
Francesca:
00:59:15
BECKY.: Yeah, yeah.
Francesca:
00:59:16
It's like you didn't help her, you didn't help her when she lost, like, literally
Francesca:
00:59:19
everything and didn't have a way to get home, but no, when she realizes, it's…
Francesca:
00:59:25
FRANCESCA : I
Francesca:
00:59:25
BECKY.: good job, Vicar.
Francesca:
00:59:26
You're
Francesca:
00:59:26
FRANCESCA : Yes.
Francesca:
00:59:27
Yes.
Francesca:
00:59:28
The Lord's work.
Francesca:
00:59:29
BECKY.: Mm-hmm.
Francesca:
00:59:30
Yeah
Francesca:
00:59:31
FRANCESCA : But all right, so we'll, we'll quit here, and we'll
Francesca:
00:59:34
go immediately to finish the book.
Francesca:
00:59:36
BECKY.: Yes.
Francesca:
00:59:37
Yes.
Francesca:
00:59:37
FRANCESCA : And we'll reconvene
Francesca:
00:59:39
BECKY.: Perfect.
Francesca:
00:59:39
I'm so excited to catch up on the rest
Francesca:
00:59:46
And that's the end of today's episode discussing chapters
Francesca:
00:59:49
one through chapters 18 of A Knight in Shining Armor by Jude Deveraux.
Francesca:
00:59:53
Join us for our part two discussion where we finish the book and we see
Francesca:
00:59:58
what awaits our heroine, Dougless, whether she is crazy or she actually
Francesca:
01:00:04
experienced a knight in shining armor coming to the 1980s to save her
Francesca:
01:00:10
Let us know what do you think about this book, or if you are as obsessed
Francesca:
01:00:15
with time travel romances as I am.
Francesca:
01:00:17
And if you are, what are your favorites?
Francesca:
01:00:20
So make sure you reply to the email or come and talk to us on social
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01:00:24
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Francesca:
01:00:27
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Francesca:
01:00:31
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Francesca:
01:00:33
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Francesca:
01:00:37
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Francesca:
01:00:40
And also don't forget to go follow Becky's podcast, the Too Stupid
Francesca:
01:00:43
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Francesca:
01:00:47
But for today, that is all we have for you guys, and I will see you in the next one.
Francesca:
01:00:50
Bye