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My guest today is Tam Veillieux.
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She uses the pronoun she, her, hers.
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Tam has found her purpose to be to
get more people to connect the dots
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between astrology and personal patterns.
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Tam Veillieux is the lead visionary
and publisher of the Energy
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Almanac, an annual publication of
weekly astrological predictions.
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A cosmic pretzel, read, a sweet, a
little sweet, kind of crunchy, always
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leaving you with something to chew
on, acting as a transformational coach
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by day, astrology groupie by night.
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Tam will bring us visual chatter on
the alchemy and strategy of creating
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change through astro energetics.
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Thank you so much for being here
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Tam Veillieux: So excited to be here.
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Thank you for having
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Michelle Lasley: You are welcome.
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Okay, so at the time of this recording,
I just want to name that it is Tuesday
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May 18th and yesterday was tax day,
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right?
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Tam Veillieux: It's true.
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Yeah.
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Michelle Lasley: So, you have this really
beautiful publication, as you, as we
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alluded to, called the Energy Almanac.
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How far in advance do you
create your publication?
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Tam Veillieux: Wow.
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Well, this, you just said
May 15th was a few days ago.
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Today's May 18th.
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I just wrapped up 2022,
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Michelle Lasley: Okay, great.
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So I just pulled out this year's, right,
and you have this, so, so, listener,
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when you look at the month snapshot, you
have a beautiful blend of like watercolor
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and whimsical handwriting fonts.
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And it says May, and there's
an arrow in this like sort of
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beautiful watercolor arrow.
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And then she gives a very
brief, weak highlight.
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for each of the four weeks of the month.
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And so for May 17th through 23rd, it
says, do get financial needs in order.
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But at the time of this writing, did you
know our tax day was going to be moved?
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Tam Veillieux: I didn't
know that at the time.
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No, isn't that crazy?
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It's amazing.
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That makes me really
like, that's a good one.
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I didn't even catch that.
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And I'm going to make a note about that.
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I try to always capture
everything we get right.
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Good for you.
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Michelle Lasley: Well, thank you.
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Because I my friend Michelle and I
try to engage weekly in however social
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media allows our messages to be.
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Promoted, right?
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And we run weekly or twice monthly
moon circles, and we lean on your
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publication heavily as guidance.
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Tam Veillieux: Oh, thank
you for saying that.
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That's amazing.
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A lot of people do, but
I love hearing it every
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah, and then
I also want to note that we were
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serendipitously connected, right?
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So we were found by, I think your
assistant somehow found my podcast.
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so I am having like a
total fangirl moment.
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Right.
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Tam Veillieux: because
that's how I got her.
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She was having a fan girl
moment in my private messages.
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And I'm like, what do
you do for work girl?
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She's like, Oh, I'm a virtual
assistant, like business manager.
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I'm like, okay, I need to talk to you.
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And I hired her.
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That's
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Michelle Lasley: Okay.
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Let's just talk about connections.
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Can we just talk about connections?
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I want to tell you the story
of how we found our realtor.
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Tam Veillieux: Okay.
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Michelle Lasley: And then let's weave in
some astrology and your take on these.
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That would be super amazing.
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So years ago, probably two or three years
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house that we currently live in at the
time of this recording we had a sense that
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we were going to need a realtor one day.
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But this was separate from the
story that I'm going to tell you.
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I had the opportunity to go
to the ballet with a friend.
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At the time, my son was like four
or five years old and I hadn't been
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out to see a play in a really long
time and the babysitter was late
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because this darling, lovely, sweet,
wonderful person who also happens to
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live on the East Coast now, got lost.
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And I could not leave to give
her directions because I was
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the only one home with my kid.
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And she kept running into the same
realtor who, and she was literally
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two blocks away from my house.
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And the realtor was like,
honey, do I have a GPS?
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This is before iPhones, right?
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I have a GPS.
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Do you want me to?
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And she called me like, Yes, have her
drive you here and get her card and after
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we did the vetting process, you know,
we got three whatever She has been and
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is still the perfect realtor for us.
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And so what we followed was
those connections, right?
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How tell me?
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Tam Veillieux: Well, that
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That is just God code.
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I just wrote about this on
Facebook, maybe two days ago.
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Like I firmly believe and know with all of
my heart that God is constantly signaling
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us constantly messaging and just begging
us to pay attention because our lives
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are intrinsically woven into the ethers.
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And if we could just pay
attention, it's the license plate.
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It's the song.
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It's the friend of a friend.
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It's the message It's the accidental click
on a link that you needed to see like
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I actually have tears in my eyes right
now because I Feel so strongly god has a
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has It's a message for us all the time.
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So many people are just going
around, unaware, unconscious, and
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you're aware, like you caught it.
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You caught that business card or that
person and she ended up perfect for you.
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Like, Oh, thank you.
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Michelle Lasley: So, one of the
things that I love about astrology
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is like, one, and I haven't dove into
the history of it that much, so if
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you have, like, please help educate.
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But you know, there was
a time when astrology and
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astronomy were the same thing.
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They weren't separate, right?
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And I love, so, so growing up
Catholic, I was taught that God created
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everything, the heavens and the earth.
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And this idea that we should separate
ourselves from these symbols or signs,
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frankly, seems a little ludicrous to me.
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Tam Veillieux: Yes.
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Quite.
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To me, astrology and astronomy,
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actually what's written out there.
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Astronomy is the science.
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Astrology is the psyche.
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Astrology is how a planetary energy
affects our psyche, our unconscious mind.
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So, if you can think of each
planet as a personality.
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We think of Venus, the planet Venus.
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It's about love and beauty.
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And I always imagine like a glowing
ball of gold and like platinum
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hair and lipstick and flowers and
a beautiful dress that's Venus.
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But when you think about Mercury.
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Now you're thinking about a small uptight
ball and he's a little bit brown and
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his brow is furrowed and he's thinking,
thinking, thinking, he's got a monocle
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and he's trying to make a decision.
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All of the planets have a
personality that kind of affect ours.
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That, so, so astrology
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How a planet affects us.
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Astronomy is, Jupiter is the largest
planet and it's got this many lakes
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and this many mountains See that
and it's this far from the sun.
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That's astronomy two different things.
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Michelle Lasley: Awesome.
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But they do rely, right, because like,
we would love to know, you know, like,
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I was born February 25th, 1978, 9 0 8 a.
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m.
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in Munising, Michigan.
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There.
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So, and that, that location and that
time tells me my son was in Pisces.
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And I use a whole house system for those
who are maybe beyond Astrology 101.
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And my Aries is rising is my rising sign.
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And my moon is in Libra.
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Tam Veillieux: Yeah, and that
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You're right So it's a little
bit of science and I like
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to say a little bit of art
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Michelle Lasley: Ooh.
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Tam Veillieux: really a blending of
the two because Astrology really does
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have to do with interpretation, right?
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Every astrologer sees it through their
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of Aries You And my idea of Pisces and
I'm interpreting who you might be also
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based on your time of birth, your the
longitude and latitude, those numbers.
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Numerology is a language of its
own that is extremely specific.
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Extremely.
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The date of your birth has great
information inside of that.
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What is your
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Michelle Lasley: My numerology number?
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Tam Veillieux: What, no,
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Michelle Lasley: 2 25 1978.
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Tam Veillieux: 25.
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So you were born on 25.
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So you have this sub story of
the two and the five, the two is
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about partnership, yin and yang.
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The five is about change.
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Those are sub stories, adventure
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But when the two and the five
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You're are, you have a lot of
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So all of that matters.
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I was born on the 22nd of September, 22.
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Master number master builder here to
bring peace to the planet in service
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to all like all of our numbers matter.
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And for me, I like to weave those into the
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Michelle Lasley: Right.
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Well, and they compliment too, right?
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So right.
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So like the Pisces side is as
one area where I look to why I
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tend to be so spiritual, right?
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And then knowing that my Libra moon and
Libra is, you know, so all about the
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partnerships in the seventh house, right?
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So like it all and then
the seven two, Oh, okay.
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And the connections and
how they overlay and yeah.
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This season's, season three, what
we're recording for is all about
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nonlinear paths to finding your purpose.
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you know that this was
what you were going to do?
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Like, you know, when you were a
five year old girl playing outside.
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Tam Veillieux: You're
killing me right here.
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nonlinear is a great way to describe
how I got to doing the energy almanac.
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It's a fun little story if
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Michelle Lasley: All you.
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Tam Veillieux: Okay.
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So I have been a transformational coach.
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I help people connect the mind
body spirit so that they can
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reach their potential faster.
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I really help unravel
the unconscious mind.
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Even the way I came to that was a little
bit of a crazy story, but I have been
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coaching pretty intensively for several
years when I finally hit my knees.
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And started praying to God.
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It was in 2018.
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I started praying to God
like I miss my creativity.
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I thought I would, I always thought
I would grow up and be an artist.
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I always thought that, but then, you
know, you hear the stories about, you
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know, artists, starving artists, and
you're going to be like broke on a beach.
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You know, I have a vision of a
broke artist walking along the
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beach with no place to live.
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So I missed my creativity.
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I was praying to God regularly.
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Like, please show me what it is that
will bring me back to my creativity.
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So I got a phone call from a a peer.
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Who said, I need to
have a meeting with you.
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You know, I've been
watching your illustration.
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I really need to talk to you.
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I'm like, Oh, cool.
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She's been talking about
doing a children's book.
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Oh my God.
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Here comes my creativity.
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Right?
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So I go to her house, not
her house, her office.
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I go to her office.
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She sits me down.
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We start doing a small talk and then she
gives me this little tap on the shoulder.
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Tam, your business wants to talk to you.
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I'm like, what?
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Okay, what my business?
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What?
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Who are you?
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She goes, Well, I well, I channel.
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So I got to tell you some stuff.
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I had no idea that she was
able to literally download
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information and just spill it.
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So I sat there with a notebook
and furiously took notes about
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how I was going to be writing a
book and illustrating the book.
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And it was going to be about astrology.
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I said, no stinking way.
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I don't know enough about astrology.
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I do not understand what
you're asking of me.
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How can this be, like, it was,
it felt completely impossible.
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She's like, yep.
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Here's how you're going to do it.
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Here are the, here's some strategy.
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Here's some information from them.
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They're telling me this.
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They're telling me that.
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I did exactly what every.
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Smart business woman does
when she gets to pick points.
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put my face in my hands and I cried
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah.
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Tam Veillieux: instructions around
timing Wait 12 weeks do this do that
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do this kind of stuff, but don't
do that yet By the way, you have to
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launch this book by december and it
was may You Wait a minute, Michelle.
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Wait for it.
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It was May 4th.
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May the 4th be with you.
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Oh my god.
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So I left the office.
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I drove home.
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It was about a half hour ride.
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And all of the dots just clicked.
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You asked for art.
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You asked for creativity.
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You have been following astrology
since you were a little girl.
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My parents used to talk about astrology.
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Astrology from my twenties into
my thirties, into my forties.
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Like it was a true interest of mine.
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Well, now it was going to be.
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My livelihood, I followed all the
instructions and I launched the very first
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energy almanac on December 1st of 2018.
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And I wrote the, I had written the book
for 20, I hadn't written, I had hired an
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astrologer to write the book for 2019.
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So yeah, I did it.
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I opened a publishing company.
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I continued coaching and did
my writing and my creativity.
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And it was a wild success.
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Like who knew it was a wild success.
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Michelle Lasley: Oh, I had no idea.
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I bought the first one last year.
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2019 was the first one.
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah, but
I had one last year, too.
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah, my friend
was selling them at her shop.
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Tam Veillieux: Great.
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah.
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Oh, my goodness.
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Just again, for full disclosure, you may
have seen me looking around furiously in
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my office space I was looking down while
you were talking, and so you have this
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beautiful tree image here, and I will
work on having this in the show notes.
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Well, we'll copy this and put this
in the show notes, but years ago I
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wanted to get a tattoo and I ended up
deciding to invite the tattoo artist
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to create a painting merging my sun
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Tam Veillieux: That's so
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being able to be open to the signs.
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Okay, you have a mission to make
transformation fast and fun.
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And you say that too many people
make change a long, arduous
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process when it doesn't have to be.
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What in the heck does that mean?
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This is good because you're, this
interview is coming off the heels
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of a coaching session I just had.
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This client and she's one of many who
are very similar I often will get people
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in my office who have been trying to
heal themselves for 10 15 20 25 years.
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I just don't believe in it.
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I believe change can
be fast and easy to do.
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And I use the word fun because
it's something that I value,
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but there's no reason you can't
laugh in your healing session.
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I said to this woman today,
okay, put it this way.
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She's, she said, wait a minute,
you're giving me permission to
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get, just get past, just move
past it and just be done with it.
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I said, yeah, you have my
permission to let it go.
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Drop the backpack right now.
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She burst into tears.
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Like she had never been given full
permission to just be done with her pain.
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It was remarkable to me.
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And thankfully that isn't
everybody's experience with
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Talk therapy, but it's
often the experience I often
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will hear from my clients.
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I have been doing, trying to fix this
for years after 20 years in two sessions
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with you, I feel 10 times better.
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Change can be fast and it
can be remarkably easy.
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And part of it is the tools that I
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Michelle Lasley: Right.
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Can you share some of those tools?
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Tam Veillieux: I will absolutely
share the number one technique
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is energy psychology in the form
of emotional freedom technique.
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Emotional freedom technique is one.
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There are some, there are others.
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NCT, neural chemical transfer is another
one that I use, but everything is energy.
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Everything lives in the quantum field.
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And if we can shift that fast,
I mean, it's remarkable how
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quickly the pain can go away.
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah.
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So EFT is what it can you, is
it tapping is related to this.
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Tam Veillieux: This is tapping.
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Emotional freedom of
speech is the technique of
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Michelle Lasley: Awesome.
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Okay.
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Where could people go if they wanted
to find out some more information or
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like get some videos or something, if
they wanted to see a quick way, how
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that would work, where could people go?
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Tam Veillieux: Absolutely.
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My own YouTube site is very friendly.
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You can go to YouTube and type
in my name, Tam Bayou, and you'll
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see all kinds of EFT videos.
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videos there.
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Also just EFT tapping inside of
the YouTube search bar is going
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to find remarkable number of
people who are doing this work.
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This is an up and coming
protocol that people are using.
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Nurses are using it.
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Doctors are using it.
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Psychotherapists are using
this because it works.
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There are more than 260 clinical trials
of emotional freedom technique to heal.
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Anxiety.
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Depression.
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I've used it for high blood pressure.
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I've used it for stress.
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I mean, you name it, it will heal it.
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I mean, I, the results I've
seen would blow your mind.
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Michelle Lasley: So my understanding
is that it was Developed by somebody
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who, by a psychologist, who is
paying attention to acupuncture.
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Tam Veillieux: Correct.
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Michelle Lasley: And I don't
remember the psychologist's name.
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But, so that this is, so without
using needles, you're trying to, along
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those same meridians, to be able to
invite the change you're looking for.
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Tam Veillieux: is exactly right.
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You are addressing meridian
points, the meridian lines.
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run through your body from top of
your head to the tip of your toes, the
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meridian lines carry light energy in
them, emotional energy in them, and
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they run through all of your organs.
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So, by tapping at your eyebrow
point, where your eyebrow meets your
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third eye, by tapping right there,
you're adjusting your bladder.
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What is the bladder hold but anger?
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How pissed off are you?
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Michelle Lasley: Wow.
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Tam Veillieux: Bladder.
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Anger.
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And then you, the side of your eye, when
you're tapping here, you're addressing
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your gallbladder, where there is guilt.
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And under your eyes, directly under your
pupils, this is when you're addressing
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your stomach, and this is about anxiety
and stress and your inability to address,
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your inability to digest your life story.
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And also each point that you're
tapping on, you're hitting a meridian
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line with an emotion attached to it.
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And as you tap you, it's like a
garden hose, you're disrupting
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or pinching off the energy flow.
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All of a sudden your organs get a
break, your body gets a break from
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that emotion and you feel lighter.
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You feel different.
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You start tapping in your excellence.
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Oh, I'm an incredible
person doing great things.
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I love my life.
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I'm proud of myself.
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Now you're changing that information
that is going into your body.
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So it's energy psychology.
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You're working with the quantum
field and the human body to do fast
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Michelle Lasley: Rewrite the story you've
been living into one you want to live.
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Tam Veillieux: Rewrite the story.
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Absolutely.
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That's what it's all about.
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My, my book is called
scripting a new life.
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Michelle Lasley: I didn't know that.
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Thank you.
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Tam Veillieux: My other book.
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Michelle Lasley: Right.
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Right.
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Okay.
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There's, I'm hearing when
you, when we talk about the
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meridians, I also hear chakras.
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Tam Veillieux: Yes.
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Michelle Lasley: And so I gravitate
towards the connections and the
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overlay and how we work on that.
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And then, so, I think you may recall,
like one of the things I use is
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and in my oil community, we're all.
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Often talking about dis ease,
right, and like breaking apart the
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word very intentionally that way.
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And so, for example, a part of it
is perhaps one might find themselves
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engaged in a rush lifestyle where
they're, you know, Rush to work.
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Rush to get wake up.
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Rush to get ready for work.
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Rush to work.
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Do all the work things.
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Rush.
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And never taking time to like figure
out how you're feeling in your body.
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What's going on?
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What's going on here?
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And then you, then you get sick.
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Tam Veillieux: Right.
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That's exactly right.
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And I'm not sure how you're tying
that into essential oils, but the
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essential oils, as they address
the emotions and tapping using
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essential oils is so, so, so powerful.
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So in that case, like you were talking
about the rush, you could choose an oil.
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The first one comes to mind is
lavender, like for calming, right?
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So you might eat, put lavender
oil on and then do some tapping.
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I am calm.
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I am.
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Save.
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There's no need for me to rush.
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You can adjust the temperature
inside of your body and just
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah.
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Tam Veillieux: soothe things.
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Michelle Lasley: So how long
have you been coaching with EFT?
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Tam Veillieux: Oh gosh.
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I started using EFT in 2006
actively coaching:
2012
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Michelle Lasley: Awesome.
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Okay.
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So you were doing, and then all at the
same time, these other natural things have
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been a part of your life and whatnot, and
you were, you know, astrology, and then
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2018, boom, you need to do this thing.
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And now it's kind of all weaving together.
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What does that, what does it
look like as it's woven together?
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Tam Veillieux: Yeah, great question.
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So for example, I had a new client
coming on board for coaching today.
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And so the first session is let's
look at your astrology chart.
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Let's see how you're wired because
the astrology is going to indicate
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what are the hurdles that she's
bumping up against regularly.
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What are the patterns it's going to
show inside of the astrology chart.
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So I will always start Most important
points of a person's chart in my from my
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point of view I am let me say I am not
a master astrologer I am not even sure
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I aspire to be but I do know plenty.
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I know a lot And yes, i've done
some training so I want every person
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to understand their sun their moon
They're rising but three other points.
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I want you to know the soul wound
Where is Chiron in your chart?
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That needs to be looked at.
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What is the North Node and
what is the South Node?
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Now, why are they important?
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The South Node is going to
indicate your karmic history.
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What am I here to overcome from
this lifetime or lifetimes past?
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There's information there to
gain and then the north notice.
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What is my karmic destiny?
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What am I here to do and how am
I here to do it the information?
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Relative to that placement on your
chart is going to say a lot about
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your regular Hurdles it all I also
like to look at where Saturn is placed
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because Saturn is represents lessons
And I like to look at where Jupiter is
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because Jupiter is your opportunity.
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Michelle Lasley: Oh my
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Tam Veillieux: So those are key
things that I'm always looking
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at on a first appointment.
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So when a client comes to me at the
third session and they're still talking
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about that north node issue, I can
say, Hey let's remember, we're going
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to use these tools and we're going
to move forward in a different way.
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It's applying the astrology
that makes a difference.
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Michelle Lasley: right.
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Oh, I love that.
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So for our average everyday person
could you just break it down?
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How astrology can benefit
the everyday person?
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Tam Veillieux: Absolutely.
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And I believe I just said it, but I'm
going to try to say it a little bit
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Michelle Lasley: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Tam Veillieux: but understanding who
you are at a base level by knowing your
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blueprint, you came here with a plan.
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Unconsciously, you came here with a plan.
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The astrology shows the plan.
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It is plan you came here.
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You are going to learn this lesson.
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You are going to do it this way You
are going to have a propensity for
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hurry, or you are going to be a pretend
propensity for dreamy Creative like
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it's going to tell you everything so by
knowing that now you can go Oh, yeah.
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Oh, here's an example.
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I'm a virgo son, so I know I can be hyper
critical By knowing that awareness gives
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me the opportunity to say, wait, am I
being realistic in the way I'm criticizing
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or am I being hypercritical because I'm
a perfectionist, Virgo perfectionist.
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Now you can ask yourself
questions differently and break
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the habit of becoming yourself.
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You want to be the best
version of yourself, not the
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average version of yourself.
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Michelle Lasley: This is gonna sound
maybe a little silly, but why do we
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want to be the best versions of ourself?
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Tam Veillieux: Well, I mean,
you can just go through life
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and get by, or you can thrive.
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I mean, for me, the ultimate
goal isn't about money though.
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Having a lot of money is wonderful
but going through life with a
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level of happiness and ease.
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It's just a remarkable thing
that not everybody gets to do.
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You know there are people who like,
you're like, Wow, how do they do that?
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How do They don't seem to have any issues.
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Or they're very forgiving and they
seem to just go through life simply.
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Well, I think we all have that
opportunity if we understand
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our patterns and our habits.
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Which are pretty much written in the
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Michelle Lasley: Right, right.
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So many things that we could discuss.
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So many questions.
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Okay, for the person who might be
intrigued, and we have a couple other
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astrology episodes that will have aired
and will air by the time this comes
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out with some other delightful folks.
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So aside from listening to those,
where would you invite people
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to learn more about astrology?
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Tam Veillieux: To be honest, I
would ask people to start with the
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energy almanac and that is as simple
as going to the energy almanac.
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com To grab your copy.
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I did the math.
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This book has 52 weekly predictions.
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I only did the math last month
52 weekly predictions that's 67
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cents a week To understand what
is happening astrologically.
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So That, that is part of it.
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But in the front of the book we offer
what does it mean to be a Pisces?
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What does it mean to be the Virgo?
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What does it mean to be Capricorn?
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We offer you information about the cycles
of the sun and the cycle of the moon.
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So it's a basic primer for
learning astrology, and I think
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that's a great place to start.
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Now when you read the Energy Almanac
weekly, you're going to understand, Oh
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yeah, It said that Saturn is in Aquarius.
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And what I'm noticing is, so if you're
taking notes, you're like, Oh, how
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that relates to me, and now you're
learning about yourself, it's just a
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really good way to begin your study in
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Michelle Lasley: Right, you have
just so much beautiful information in
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here and you break everything down.
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I will absolutely concur.
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This is a great starting point,
especially if you are inclined to
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plan and you like planning things.
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This is a great way to get some guides.
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So, I mentioned I, I like to hold
space for my moon circles, and one
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of the reasons I like to work through
the moon is it's, it tends to be also
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like kind of astrology like, getting
people, because it's the thing, you
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see it, changes all the time mostly,
you know, unless it's cloudy out.
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And when we start to plan our
lives towards the moon, and
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this is like next level, right?
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Tam Veillieux: Yes.
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It's totally next level.
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And even in the book that you're having,
the:
2021
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we have the solar cycles every month,
almost is it the sun moves like the moon
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moves in every quarter or even eighth of
a quarter, you're changing the energy.
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Sometimes you're harvesting.
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Sometimes you're sitting
back and just ruminating.
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What have I just grown and how did it go?
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There's a certain time for everything.
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We are seasonal beings.
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There's.
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There's, we're cyclical.
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And if we can just learn to identify
our personal cycles it's life changing.
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I do a product, it's called SYNC,
S Y N C, Stay Your Natural Course.
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And it basically takes your
personal astrology and tells
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you which house you're in.
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So you can be really cyclical
about how you do your life.
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It's really good.
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just good to be in sync with
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Michelle Lasley: Right.
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I find things the more we connect
with nature, it helps build, reconnect
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that personal development I think is
a huge invitation you have for people
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is really to dig in so we can thrive
in our lives instead of just going by.
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Okay, so I like, I'm a
visionary kind of person.
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So I was, let's say we had more people who
were open to the invitation of thriving.
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What would our world look like?
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Yeah.
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Yeah,
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Tam Veillieux: that.
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Those were all extremely
relative to pivotal points
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on the astrological calendar.
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We would understand that with.
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Saturn in Aquarius that there
is pressure applied to groups
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of people, but what can you do?
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So astrology has a front and a back
there's the good and there's the bad
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there's do this don't do that Saturn in
Aquarius if everybody understands Saturn
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asks us to be very disciplined Saturn
begs us to add structure to what we do,
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but Aquarius is about intuition Saturn
in Aquarius says pay attention to your
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intuition, be disciplined about it.
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Saturn in Aquarius says use that
intuition to help the greater good because
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Aquarius is about the greater good.
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It's not all darkness and fear.
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This is how you can apply
it and use it for the good.
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So by having more people look at the
cyclical nature of astrology, people
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would understand, there would be an ease.
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There would be less fear.
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Michelle Lasley: now.
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Tam Veillieux: Right?
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And I would think quicker resolution.
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Quicker resolution.
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Michelle Lasley: I'd like to say
we would be looking at new and
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interesting and more different problems.
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Tam Veillieux: There you go.
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Michelle Lasley: So we are
completely out of time.
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What is one last thing you would like
people to take away before we go?
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Tam Veillieux: Oh boy.
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All will be well.
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And all will be well.
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And all in time will be well.
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Goethe, the German philosopher.
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That is my favorite saying.
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And it's so true.
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Time really does heal.
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And Having trusting and having
faith and leaning in that it's
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going to be okay has true value.
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So as much as I want everybody to
keep their head up and look at the
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moon and stars and pay attention,
truly what I want for every single
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person listening, have faith.
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All will be well.
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Michelle Lasley: And
where can people find you?
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Tam Veillieux: They can
find me at my website.
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Choose big change.
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com.
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Michelle Lasley: Awesome.
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Thank you so much for being
here and sharing your wisdom.
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I'm so glad.
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Tam Veillieux: My pleasure.